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It is hard starting out in any alternative lifestyle whether its swinging, trying an open-marriage situation, opening up about your kinks and fetishes or coming out as bi, gay or as part of the lgbtqia community.

Our blog and our member site is intended for for all adults learning because even the most experienced will tell you there is always something new to learn in our changing world. Stick with us and we will help you through the minefield of all the alternative lifestyles from getting that little spank up to experiencing your fantasies. We encourage your feedback and suggestions for articles you want to read about.

Lioness

By Admin | March 17, 2021

Sex Blogs and women empowerment & erotica, fun, sassy, sexy, vibrant, powerful and informative, Lioness brings you everything you need in a sexually liberated world.

The Swinger Cruise

By Admin | March 17, 2021

Imagine stepping off the gangway and immediately feeling somehow sexier and more alluring. Feel the approving glances of others as if you were a celebrity. Indeed! When you are with TheSwingerCruise.com on one of these cruises, that’s exactly how it begins.

Open Love 101

By Admin | March 17, 2021

John and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous Colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, Dallas, Houston, and Austin.

Multiamory

By Admin | March 17, 2021

Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you.

50 Shades of Pink

By Admin | March 16, 2021

Check out lots of awesome blogs from 50 Shades of Pink A blog about sexual health, relationships, happiness and more. Marriages, Sexless Relationships, Dating & Divorce, so much to learn

Centre for Sexuality

By Admin | March 16, 2021

We are a nationally recognized, community-based organization delivering programs and services that work to normalize sexuality and sexual health across the lifespan.

Swingers Clubs List – 2021 Swing Your Way Around The USA with the Alternative Lifestyle

By Admin | February 5, 2021

Best Swinger Club Club List over the USA find kinky, naughty and clothing optional play resorts and nightclubs for the alternative lifestyle and adult entertainments.

Swinger Website – Social Platform, Events, Alternative Lifestyle Businesses

By Admin | February 3, 2021

The best swinger website – Why? Because not only is it free to members but it has a legitimate social platform similar to FB so people can really get to know each other, welcoming all walks of the alternative lifestyle for adults over 21

What Does Non-Binary Really Mean as Gender Identity

By Admin | February 2, 2021

Non-binary is a term used to identify a person who does not identify within the gender binary (male or female) by definition, however it is a little more complex

Compersion? What is it all about and how do you achieve it

By Admin | February 2, 2021

Compersion, Poly relationships, open marriages, cuckolds & swinging all need some form of it so what is it, let us explain how it works

12 Pro’s & Cons to Swinging and the Adult Alternative Lifestyle

By Admin | February 1, 2021

12 of the Pro’s and Con’s to swinging and the Adult Alternative Lifestyle, Compersion, Trust, Friendship, Relationships, Jealousy, Fear, Insecurities, we discuss them all to give you a better insight to the swing scene

List of Nudist Locations in the USA for the Adult & Alternative Lifestyles

By Admin | January 27, 2021

Want to find the best naked, or clothing optional resorts, hot springs, spas, RV parks and camping around the US? Visit our map of cities and towns for the best ones

Best sex positions for female orgasm

By Scarlet Minxy | January 27, 2021

119 Best Sex Positions Use the arrows to browse through each sex position. This sex positions guide has every position you will ever need to know. Rather than reading a sex positions book, you’ll find instructions and information on every enjoyable, popular and different sex position as well as some of the more exotic ones on …

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Hotwife – Why are so many women turning to this?

By Admin | January 26, 2021

Are you a guy who loves watching his wife with other guys? Or maybe a hotwife who loves how hot her husband gets? Find out why Hotwife Roles are now so popular

Polyamorous Terms

By Admin | January 25, 2021

Get confused by all the poly terminology and just want the basics of the polyamorous terms and ways, well here you are

Polyamory, Throuples and some of the dynamics

By Admin | January 25, 2021

Poly or Polyamorous relationships can be a very complicated or quite simple from throuples to multiples let’s take a look

What is the Alternative Lifestyle?

By Admin | January 25, 2021

People ask what is the Alternative Lifestyle, it is a lifestyle perceived to be outside the cultural norms for instance “straight” or “monogamous” …

Swinging, Women, Sex & Seduction

By Admin | January 22, 2021

Are you a woman into swinging, a lady in the lifestyle without shame or want to try it out but scared what people will say, well ladies read on

Swingers & The Rules

By Admin | January 20, 2021

Swingers – those sexual deviants do not seem to have any rules .. or do they? Actually unlike most believe swingers don’t just have sex with everyone everywhere there is a fine art to it.

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Sensual versus sexual photography

By Scarlet Minxy | January 14, 2021

Sensual vs Sexual Photography
What’s your favorite style?

Alphabet of BDSM Terms

By Admin | January 13, 2021

Ever wondered what some of these BDSM Terms mean, there are so many so we cover the alphabet of the Bondage, Dominant & Sadomasochism world

Swinger Terms & What They All Mean

By Admin | January 13, 2021

Do you ever get confused by all the swinger terms or get embarrassed when someone refers to something you don’t understand? Well, get educated, we explain them all here

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS, IS IT THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR YOU….

By Admin | January 13, 2021

What are your thoughts on open relationships, surely it’s better than cheating? Read more with us about options of the changing world of 2021

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Exploring Restraints

By Scarlet Minxy | January 11, 2021

Exploring restraints. Have you wanted to spice up your sex life?

Sex Topics You and Your Partner Must Discuss

By Admin | January 9, 2021

Sex topics you and your partner must discuss, kinks, fantasies, fetishes, honesty, STD’s and more

Dogging

By Admin | January 9, 2021

Have you heard of dogging, Do you Like it? Want to find out what it is? Read our article on dogging to find out a little more and how you get to meet like minded people into this huge public sex ….

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Fantasies

By Scarlet Minxy | January 8, 2021

Lets talk fantasies, whats yours?

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Boudoir Photography

By Admin | January 6, 2021

Not feeling sexy? Maybe it’s time to have a boudoir photo shoot? Maybe your man would have one with you or you can have one to send to your current partner or hopefully new partners ..

Is Monogamy Realistic in the Modern World

By Admin | November 13, 2020

Is it Realistic to believe we should be with one person for the rest of our lives especially in the modern day of social media?

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Sexting – When’s the last time you did it?

By Admin | October 28, 2020

Do you really pay enough attention to your partner and make them feel sexy and special? When is the last time you sent them a sext?

A Very Sexy Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Words

By Admin | October 23, 2020

The world of BDSM contains not only its own sex acts (Is smelling a foot sex? Sure, if it gets you off!), but its own highly-robust vocabulary, too. Since all that terminology can be intimidating for newcomers, let’s start with the basics: “BDSM” stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism—the core pillars of kinky fun. Beyond that, there’s a whole language to describe the consensual power exchange practices that take place under the BDSM umbrella. Whatever you’re into, just make sure to snuggle and practice lots of aftercare when it’s all said and done, especially if anyone involved is a painslut and needs ice after some impact play.

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Underground Swinging

By Admin | October 22, 2020

Swinging is not as underground as it used to be but there is a a stigma attached. I know many swingers that are living the swinging/kinky life on the weekends as horny sex addicts having plenty sex, swapping partners and experimenting in every bi/pansexual dynamic they can get away with but then they go home to the kids and act like monogamy is the only way to be!

Looking for The Most Popular Swinging & Kink Places by State?

By Admin | October 6, 2020

Trying to find local swingers? The answer is simple – sign up for THE ALT STYLE – It’s free and has an amazing section of city by city so you can find all the best swinger and kink clubs locally to you or while you are travelling

First Steps Into Swinging

By Admin | October 4, 2020

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE YOU GET INTO SWINGING So, you finally realized everything you knew about being a swinger was a complete lie. You’re welcome. And maybe after reading that story, you and your partner were like: “Well, since it’s not all old people with robes, watching you with somebody else might be kind …

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19 Threesome Tips From Women Who Have Been There

By Admin | October 4, 2020

19 Threesome Tips From Women Who Have Been There, Because Communication Is Key In All Kinds Of Sex

Why All Men Want A 3some

By Admin | October 4, 2020

We all have our sexual fantasies. Some of us get more creative with our fantasies then others- whips & chains, masks, role playing, fucking a random girl on the subway, in the park, in a cab, in the movie theater… the list goes on and on.

How Do I Get Into BDSM

By Admin | October 4, 2020

A Guide For Beginners, Because The Most Important Thing You Do Is Probably Not What You Think BDSM means different things to different people. Some may be pretty sure they aren’t into it, while many of us can’t help but be really curious. But what do you need to know if you’re new to BDSM? Like …

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