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By Jamie at Kink Lovers It’s no surprise that people find particular clothing sexy. As utilitarian as clothes are, providing cover or warmth for our bodies, all cultures past and present also wear garments that they find beautiful. We amp this up when we dress for a date, tailoring our threads to accentuate our best features and draw attention to This article was previously published here: Fashion Fetishism: Latex, Rubber, and PVC Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Addi Stewart at Kink Lovers Were you a fan of the Honeymooners? Yeah, there were problematic issues with some of the characters and domestic situations they found themselves in, but there was one thing that Ralph said that was an accurate metaphor for what us BDSM lovers are constantly interested in and attracted to. He’d say these words, and as This article was previously published here: Impact Play Tools: 5 Ways to Explore Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Jamie at Kink Lovers I was talking with my friend and sometimes lover about ethical kink, and the joys and pitfalls of kinky dating. Since both of us live unconventional lives, are both what is sometimes disparagingly referred to as *cringe* promiscuous, and both into some pretty crazy fetish stuff, we don’t like passing judgement on others for their This article was previously published here: Ethical Kink: 7 Values for Responsible Dating Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Holly at Kink Lovers This week’s Kinky Confession comes from a reader with a ghost fetish. I’ve believed in ghosts ever since I was a young child going for overnight stays at camp. When the beautiful young women who were counsellors told ghost stories around the campfire, I would become so aroused, I sometimes sneaked off into the woods This article was previously published here: Ghost Fetish: Spectrophilia and Ghost Sex Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Jamie at Kink Lovers One realm of the imagination is our age or the age of our lovers. This sets the stage for age play and a variety of age-related fetishes. Role play ideas in costume, state of mind, power dynamics, and settings make kink a vast, unlimited terrain of options for creative sex. Role play can take us This article was previously published here: 11 Age Play Fetishes and Kinks Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Holly at Kink Lovers What we experience through all our senses—touch, sight, hearing, taste, smell—has an affect on what kinds of kinks and sexual interests we fall in love with or simply feel drawn to over the course of our lives. From my own sexual proclivities and from what many of readers write in our Kinky Confessions, the senses This article was previously published here: How the 5 Senses Affect Our Kinks and Fetishes Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Jamie at Kink Lovers Dear Jamie, I started dating a woman named Nicole who I met on a kink dating site. We hit it off in person after quite a few long conversations online. It looked like we had a few fetishes in common and were heading towards a great sex life. But before things got there, she told This article was previously published here: 5 Reasons She Doesn’t Want Sexual Penetration Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Holly at Kink Lovers Have you ever met a woman who was too kinky for you? You dated for a while, then she wanted you to play doctor which you thought was hot, until she brought out a proper scalpel. Or maybe your fantasy of being tied up resulted in you being left alone for hours and screaming for This article was previously published here: Kinks that Cause Breakups Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Jamie at Kink Lovers Women are kinky, and we’re into BDSM. (Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism.) But why do women like BDSM, and how many? It’s impossible to accurately assess what percentage of the population is into what kink, by gender, or as a whole. There are studies that attempt to look at these issues, but they This article was previously published here: Why Do Women Love BDSM? Copyright © Kink Lovers

By Holly at Kink Lovers If you’ve been around the kink block more than a few times, like myself, then you know what you like. And what we like is what we go back to, time and time again. It’s often the first out-there sex kink that caught our attention or that we tried early on in our sexual lives This article was previously published here: 5 Ways to Put a Twist on an Old Kink Copyright © Kink Lovers