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Sex Nerd Sandra Curious about the naughty side of life? Come giggle with Sandra at the cuddly side of the sex pool! Exploring fascinating topics & perspectives on sex & love, join sexuality educator Sandra Daugherty & special guests for a loving laugh at the fundamentals of human nature.

  • Sexual Satisfaction with Dr. Lindsey Doe!
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 14, 2020 at 5:35 pm

    VAGINAL SHOVELING! EXORCISM! PLISSIT MODEL!

  • The Hot Goss on HIV with Raul Quintero
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 2, 2019 at 12:27 am

    UNDETECTABLE = UNTRANSMITTABLE! Half the folks in the USA with HIV cannot pass on the virus. Wut? PrEPducator and sex-positive HIV counselor Raul Quintero (@rq_rude) shares mind-blowing updated research and enlightening new info about prevention and treatment of HIV today.  TOPICS: Dating someone with HIV, miracle pills, getting a prescription for PrEP / Truvada, PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis), body fluids, stigmas, myths, fears, outdated info about HIV transmission, hope and compassion, WHO (World Health Organization) and CDC, hilarious STI testing swab techniques and more.   For more resources, checkout aidsmap.com, benryan.net and poz.com for accurate HIV information. Join Sandra at Patreon.com/sexnerdsandra for bonus episodes and more!

  • Dave and Sandra Clear the Air with Dave Ross
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 28, 2018 at 7:03 pm

    THERAPY! MASCULINITY! GENDER! Dave Ross, comedian and former co-host of the show, shares what it was like being the co-host of this sex podcast for 100 episodes. It’s an episode about closure and reflection on a working relationship. It gets deep. It gets honest. Team Fun gets real.    Join Sandra at Patreon.com/sexnerdsandra for bonus episodes and more!

  • Tumblr’s Porn Ban with Lady Cheeky
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 21, 2018 at 7:40 am

    SEXY GIFS! SEX TRAFFICKING! THIS PODCAST IS BACK! Online platforms are kicking off adult content. Tumblr just banned porn and erotic images. Looking at freedom of speech, public health concerns, sex-positive access to self-affirming imagery and sex worker rights, Lady Cheeky and Sandra explore the implications of the just implemented Tumblr Porn Ban. ~~~ Lady Cheeky is the Famous Alter Ego of sex educator, activist, speaker and author Elle Chase. Signup for her newsletter at ElleChase.com to find out more about  Pickup Elle’s “NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book” and “The #NSFW Totally Curvy Coloring Book” at SheVibe.com. Pickup her popular book, “Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower your Sex Life,” available at your favorite bookseller. ~~ This episode is literally made possible by Patrons like you. Support the Sex Nerd Sandra podcast at Patreon.com/join/SexNerdSandra

  • Pavlovian Sex: Human Clicker Training with Miss Holly!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 25, 2017 at 7:00 am

    FUN WITH BRAINWASHING! Meet Miss Holly, a kinky pioneer using clicker training for sexual happiness. Turns out methods used to train dogs, parrots and dolphins can help humans develop deeper, happier relationships. TOPICS: Consensual brainwashing, Chris Pratt in Jurassic World, people-pleasers, pleasure, brain chemicals, dog vs human training, Dom/sub relationship training, domestication fetish, “positive punishment” vs “positive reinforcement” vs “negative punishment” vs “negative reinforcement,” sex magic, ASMR whisper tingles, triad polyamory, kinky marriage, oral sex communication, dangers, and achieving goals. PLUS training concepts like triggers, cold shaping, marks, rewards, the 3 fail rule and coming on command.

  • Yes Means Yes! Consent with Jaclyn Friedman!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 18, 2017 at 12:12 am

    ARE YOU ON TEAM FUN? Author, podcaster and feminist troublemaker Jaclyn Friedman helps Sandra as they splash around the murky waters of consent. Going beyond no-means-no, they examine issues in heterosexual context, showing how to move from awkward to confident and from clunky to kind. TOPICS: The sex-positive movement vs the anti-sexual-violence movement, unscrewing masculinity/media/sex ed, sexual liberation, romance, body language, making it sexy, bad sex vs violence, affirmative/enthusiastic consent, sex scripts, consent apps, coerced experiences, thinking ethically vs legally, body sovereignty, gender, unpacking old trauma, playing Gotcha, the rules, drugs and alcohol impairment vs taking the edge off, which questions are rapey and how to violate our very own boundaries!

  • Dominatrix for President with Tara Indiana!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 1, 2016 at 7:11 am

    WHIPPING AMERICA BACK INTO SHAPE! Mistress Tara Indiana (Den of Iniquity) shares what 25 years of domination could do for America, with a hearty look at politics, sex and the middle-aged white men. TOPICS: Plural of “Dominatrix,” female supremacy, Trump’s micropenis, kink-positive politics and so much more!

  • Cougar Sex with Psalm Isadora!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 21, 2016 at 1:53 am

    BREAST ORGASMS! Tantra, sex and relationship expert Psalm Isadora is the star of “Cougar Club” on Playboy TV. She enlightens Sandra on confident seduction, growing up conservative, finding Tantra in India, shooting a reality TV show, owning her eroticism and dating young men.

  • The Search for Sexy with Dr. David Frederick!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 13, 2016 at 7:30 am

    CAN SCIENCE MAKE YOU SEXIER? Behind-the-scenes audio of a fantastic interview from the Sex Nerd Sandra Fusion TV special, “The Search for Sexy.” Dr David Frederick of Chapman University shares immediately useful love life skills culled from attraction research. Let’s make the world a better place to date! TOPICS: Muscles, value, idiosyncratic preferences, online dating, kindness, confidence, creating intrigue, danger, falling in love, limerence, increasing arousal, unexpected reward, playing hard to get, sparking connection, honest and dishonest signaling, direct or innocuous pickup lines, high status signaling, breasts vs bottoms, waist-to-hip ratio, ovulating stripper research, humor, paradox of choice, online photos, and more! Checkout the Fusion TV special “The Search for Sexy” hosted by Sex Nerd Sandra on YouTube! Online dating? Let Sex Nerd Sandra tune-up your dating profile! Click Here to checkout her new project, PROFILE PUNCH-UP! For serious. do your profile right and they come to you.

  • Edge Play with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas: Part 2!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 16, 2016 at 8:29 am

    RACE PLAY! A great night continued as “The Perverted Negress” Mollena talks about what to do when “some of edge play is ‘this is so f***ed up I’ve got to try it'” and her husband Herr Meister (Mr. Master) gets up to share how he moved to America to follow his dream. TOPICS: Racially-motivated scenes, feeling drawn vs repulsed, when to try the thing, choosing the right partner, role-play, Master and slave, Torah, collaring ceremony, dreaming to have a submissive, accepting yourself, “real slavery and suppression vs consensual love in this way,” “Playing Well with Others,” “Sound of Music.” AUDIENCE Q&A: Asexuality in kink, edutainment, sharing fantasy with a partner, flogging catharsis and getting into the scene.

  • Edge Play with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas: Part 1!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 12, 2016 at 2:42 pm

    PLAYING WITH FEAR! Recorded live at NYC’s Union Hall, “writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller & Award-Winning Executive Pervert” Mollena Lee Williams-Haas shares a fun kinky guessing game, taboos and empowering ways to explore your boundaries.

  • Woman on Fire with Amy Jo Goddard!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 5, 2016 at 8:26 am

    FEMALE EJACULATION! Amy Jo Goddard, sex coach and author of “Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence” is back on the show sharing how each of us can regain our voice, stand in our power and come home to ourselves! TOPICS: Feelings, approaching the Big Round Ball, sexual empowerment, regaining your voice, reframing stories, sexual epiphanies, coming home to yourself, agency, consciously single, people-pleasing tendencies, leaving yourself, core sexual creative energy, asexuality, archetypes, anatomy geek-out on female ejaculation, “New View of a Woman’s Body,” lousy g-spot research, fantasizing, truck stop train, orgasm, and what it means to be a Woman on Fire!

  • Sex and Racial Justice with Aida Manduley, Anaîn Bjorkquist and Cindy Lee Alves!
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 24, 2016 at 8:00 am

    WHITE GUILT! Three all-star members of WOCSHN (Women of Color Sexual Health Network) break down what racial justice is and what the heck race has to do with sex. TOPICS: Diverse sex educators, community, black men in swinging, stereotypes, objectification, assumptions based on what people think you are, micro aggressions, sexualization and academia, defining racial justice, invalidating Grace Jones, all lives matter vs black lives matter, not seeing color, “embedded, systematic white supremacy,” light skinned privilege, invisible lab coat, fetishization, home ownership, intersections of privilege, anti-racist storytelling, shame & guilt, the spicy Latina, lingerie and toy colors, interracial dating, Pokemon, learning your history, messed up medical studies, internalized self hate and how we step into the world.

  • Butt Stuff: A Retrospective with Tristan Taormino and Andy Wood!
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 21, 2016 at 9:37 pm

    ORGY DOME! Anal sex innovator, author and director Tristan Taormino shares hilarious stories and mishaps of over a decade of teaching butt stuff to America. BUT FIRST: Comedian Andy Wood talks their shared observations at the sexy ATTOL Burning Man camp. TOPICS: Acid, panic attack, sex machine doula, The Tristan, man bag of sex toys, how “The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women” came to be, research, prostates & g-spots, Halcyon pink camp, kayak sex, early anal adopter, 2nd edition, butt bondage, secret plugs, a fisting love story, one finger oracle, double-layer lubing, position show-and-tell and an audience Q & A!

  • Sex Nerd, Death Nerd and Dying with Megan Andelloux!
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 2, 2015 at 12:26 am

    ASMR WHISPER BONUS! Sexologist, founder of The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health and aspiring death doula Megan Andelloux’s brain has a problem and now this sex & death nerd is turning her interests inward. TOPICS: Lipstick for blowjobs, brain damage, primary progressive aphasia vs early Alzheimers vs dementia vs mild cognitive impairment vs frontal temporal lobe disorder (FTD), telling someone bad news, orgasms, sex at end of life, anticipatory grief, anger, confusion, bitterness, floods of emotion, stepping away from work, changes in brain and behavior, overactive sex drive research, inhibition, spasms, masturbation, sex with a partner, support group sex talk, hyper sexual vs absent filters, sadness, Death Salon, Art of Dying, hope, boredom vs loneliness, invisible disability, cancer vs dementia, loved ones changing, loss of who you are, how to be supportive, mindfulness, sending short loving emails, staying connected, consent & dementia, PTSD, calming blanket, restraints.

  • Sexual Harassment Double Standards with Kyle Hill!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 19, 2015 at 1:31 am

    SEX SCIENCE! CON DRAMA! Sandra checks in with Nerdist Sciene Editor Kyle Hill about some bizarre behavior she witnessed at Wonder Con. TOPICS: Sex research, coercion, speaking up for yourself, depression, anal sex, feminism, equality, sex parties and introvert tendencies! Kyle Hill is a science writer and communicator based in Los Angeles, California. He received his bachelors of science in civil and environmental engineering from Marquette University, and his masters of arts in communication from the same university in 2013. In 2013, he started writing for Scientific American, finding a niche in the intersection of science and pop culture. Since then, his nerdy work has been published in WIRED, Popular Science, Slate, The Boston Globe, Nautilus, io9, and BuzzFeed. He has appeared as an expert on Fox News, Al Jazeera America, and Huffington Post Live, held writing positions at Nature Education and Discover Magazine, and has worked as a TV science correspondent for Al Jazeera America. In 2013, he was named one of the 20 science communicators to follow by WIRED magazine. His goal as a science communicator is to use pop culture to teach science in a fun and digestible way. Kyle is currently the Science Editor of Nerdist Industries.

  • Give Me Sex Jesus with Matt Barber and Brittany Machado!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 10, 2015 at 6:35 am

    FUN WITH GUILT & SHAME! Dishing their discoveries from folks from Evangelical America, documentary producers Matt Barber and Brittany Machado share how a culture of purity might effect marriage, orientation, virginity and our concepts of self. Watch the film Give Me Sex Jesus! So good!

  • Sex Outside the Lines with Chris Donaghue!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 3, 2015 at 5:28 pm

    IS MY SEX NORMAL?! Sandra explores the mind of therapist and thought leader Dr. Chris Donaghue as they flip through his new book, Sex Outside the Lines where he challenges norms in psychology and the media. TOPICS: Wounded diversity, Non-conformity, health on the outside, asymmetrical hair, passing, expected cheating, ignoring your desires, denial, waiting till marriage, watching partner have sex, Jada Pinkett Smith, jealousy, sex as a tool for learning, sexual fascists, cis gender disorder, sexism, flirting, asking for kisses, honoring your turn-ons, expanding arousal, systemic and institutional racism, valuing sex, orientation and more!!!

  • Gender Queer Part 2 with Rhys Nicholson and Xavier Moustache!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 24, 2015 at 11:09 am

    Live in Sydney, Australia, Sandra enlists fascinating comic Rhys Nicholson and trans activist and educator Xavier Moustache to help her figure out her gender. BUT FIRST! Elle Chase and Sandra discuss the sexy of Magic Mike XXL, Scandal, Sense8,  TOPICS: body image, eating disorders, Australian slang, gay marriage, lisps, anxiety, masculinity, trans identity, defining “gender queer,” pronouns, Sydney sex store shopping and so much more! 

  • Gender Queer Part 1 with Rhys Nicholson and Xavier Moustache!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 16, 2015 at 12:26 am

    Live in Sydney, Australia, Sandra enlists fascinating comic Rhys Nicholson and trans activist and educator Xavier Moustache to help her figure out her gender. TOPICS: body image, eating disorders, Australian slang, gay marriage, lisps, anxiety, masculinity, trans identity, defining “gender queer,” pronouns, Sydney sex store shopping and so much more! 

  • The Sex Slang of Urban Dictionary: Part 2 with Kyle Kinane, Elicia Sanchez and Nick Stargu!
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 15, 2015 at 1:00 am

    DIRTY SANCHEZ! Live at Bridgetown Comedy Festival, hilarious comics Kyle Kinane, Elicia Sanchez and Nick Stargu explore the Venn diagram of sex and Urban Dictionary with Sex Nerd Sandra. 

  • The Sex Slang of Urban Dictionary: Part 1 with Kyle Kinane, Elicia Sanchez and Nick Stargu!
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 14, 2015 at 11:42 pm

    DIRTY SANCHEZ! Live at Bridgetown Comedy Festival, hilarious comics Kyle Kinane, Elicia Sanchez and Nick Stargu explore the Venn diagram of sex and Urban Dictionary with Sex Nerd Sandra. 

  • Stripping: Part 2 with Erika Moen plus Christian and Brock from Stag PDX!
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 5, 2015 at 6:27 am

    MAGIC MIKE! Continuing last week’s stripper theme, Sandra and webcomic artist Erika Moen interview male strippers from Portland’s new male strip club, Stag. On stage at Portland’s Dante’s, hilarity ensues. 

  • Stripping: Part 1 with Erika Moen, Hazel and The Baroness plus Matt Kirshen and Kira Soltanovich!
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 4, 2015 at 12:41 am

    LAP DANCES! Recorded live at Portland’s Dante’s, it’s a packed show. FIRST, enjoy stand-up comedy by Matt Kirshen. THEN comedian Kira Soltanovich joins for a rousing debate about whether strippers are like comedians. THEN, artist, cartoonist and guest co-host Erika Moen (OJST) and Sandra share their very different fascinations with strip clubs. FINALLY, lady strippers Hazel and The Baroness teach Erika and Sandra how to work in a strip club, give a lap dance and as a customer, how to behave. Listen in to Part 2 -MALE STRIPPERS!  

  • Sex & Disability Primer with Robin Wilson-Beattie!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 15, 2015 at 7:00 am

    PIMP GIMP! Disability advocate Robin Wilson-Beattie sets Sandra straight about loving and having autonomy over your own body, no matter what the circumstances. TOPICS: Types of disability, Cross-disability, Spinal cord injury, Sex with paralysis, Being special-special, Robin’s rare birth defect, Physical therapy sex ed, BDSM, Sex and dating, Person-frist language, Vocabulary: “able-bodied,” “crip,” and “gimp,” Confidence, Feeling broken, Disabled-not-desperate, Self-driving cars, independence, Tindr, Disclosing, Cane, Masturbation, Dr. Marylou Naccarato, Sex toys, Loving yourself and our brains as a sexual organ!

  • Asexuality 101!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 9, 2015 at 5:56 pm

    TRIPLE A! Sandra joins a group of asexuals (Aces) at Occidental College to find out about this invisible orientation, including being asexual, aromantic and/or agender. TOPICS: Allosexual, Sexually Repulsed, Amatonormativity, Romantic coding, Coming out to family, Dating, Being lonely, Friendship, Intimacy, Visibility, Ace pride float hopes, Robot assumptions, Cheek kissing, Trying to be sexual, Consent, Resources and so much more! Checkout the Asexual Visibility and Education Network and The Thinking Asexual for more info and meetup groups near you. Watch asexuality videos at Aces Wild on YouTube! Thank you to everyone who joined us for the recording!

  • Hardcore Men’s Toys with Oxballs’ Ox and Jesus!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 6, 2015 at 7:00 am

    DILDO INCEPTION! Sandra marvels at Ox & Jesus of Oxballs, a predominantly gay hardcore toy company. TOPICS: Anal play, Vaginal cul-de-sac, Fringe fetishes, Skyscraper dildo, Straight market dongs, Nipple grippers, Art, 3D printing, Pushing balls forward, Cockring functionality, Bulges, Slings, The Hung, Longterm cocking wear, Penetrators, Goal-oriented size kings, Hollow plugs, Matterhorn lube slide plugs, Foreskin enthusiasm, Toys popular in Japan, 50 Shades of Grey tampon, Pigs & Otters, Kink lingo, Kitty play, Penis sheaths and Ball stretchers!

  • Sex Party Planning with Allison Moon & Marriah Moonkindred!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 25, 2015 at 8:43 am

    NO RANCH DRESSING! Girl Sex 101 author Allison Moon and performance artist Marriah Moonkindred teach Sandra how to throw a party. TOPICS: Hot lesbian action, Activities, Bar area, Friendly door, Sex and social anxiety, Accidental sex parties, Welcome circle, Kinky Salon, Betty Dodson, Jack & Jill Offs, Other parties, In front of friends, Bonobos, Organic vs planned sex, Giving permission as a host, Beacon of Permission. THEN: Creating your container, BDSM, Swinging scene, Curating guests, Strap-ons, Intention setting, Pre-party orientation, Consent and boundaries, Party zones, Music, Sunday Fun-day, Jealousy, Men hosts, Cuddle Party, Deep throat, Invitations and the perfect snack table!  

  • The New Monogamy with Dr. Tammy Nelson!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 21, 2015 at 4:46 pm

    KEEPING SECRETS! Sandra seeks therapist & author Dr. Tammy Nelson’s wisdom for creating intentional monogamy, especially after infidelity. TOPICS: 2nd Marriages, Occupations that cheat, Fixing yourself, Transformative sex, Redefining relationships, Surviving affairs, Fixing marriage, Explicit vs impact agreements, Committing to forever, Unconditional love problems, Love as a choice, Desexualizing your relationship, Planning sex, Anticipatory eroticism, Arousal before desire, Types of affairs, Monogamy continuum, Betrayal, Integrity, Getting more of what we like and Opening your frontal cortex.

  • Sex & World Peace with Charles Eisenstein!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 18, 2015 at 5:56 pm

    SACRED SEX! Storyteller, author and speaker Charles Eisenstein (Sacred Economics) explores the leverage point of sexuality as a path to a better world.  TOPICS: Artificial sex and money scarcity, Patriarchy, Jealousy, Changing the world, Believing it’s possible, Heightened authenticity, Intimacy, Love as expansion of self to include another, The war on yourself, Nature, Revolutionary pleasure, Conquest of flesh, Reuniting with nature and body, Community, Joint creativity, Consuming fun, Primal gifts, Giving and receiving, Rumi, Profound intimacy, College sex, Soul’s ego, Experts, Play, Sacred moments, Changing narrative, Demolishing your story, Relationships, Mistakes, Tamera eco-village and Separateness.

  • Doing it for Science with Grant Stoddard!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 3, 2015 at 9:50 pm

    SHAG-ALOGUE! Fascinating writer and accidental sexpert Grant Stoddard shares how he went from having “the love-making skills of a demented muskrat” to becoming the “Hunter S Thompson of the vagina.” Sandra learns so much, including the only time he wished for a smaller penis.  TOPICS: Hobbies, Experiential writing, Sploshing, Class clown, Ameriphile, “Working Stiff,” Adventure, Anthropological jape, Large orgy penis, Promiscuity, Estimating penis size, Dildo Peddling, Editorial decisions, Flirting style, British accents in America, Accidentally poly, Crying & waking = Cheching, Detailed list of partners, Therapeutic sex, Pussy Cat Dolls of Dicks, DWI, Burning Man and Exhibitionism!

  • Sex & Depression with The Redhead Bedhead!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 28, 2015 at 1:55 am

    CONFESSIONS, LIBIDO & GENITALS! Sandra comes clean with pal Rachael for support. Then, JoEllen Notte, a.k.a. The Redhead Bedhead shares findings about this invisible illness and how it intersects with sex as she prepares to write her upcoming book “Monster Under the Bed.” TOPICS: Bipolar II, Hypomania, Lithium, Losing Yourself, Compulsive Behavior, Beds, Autonomy, Treatment, Desexualization, Pinkness’ @pinkness’ #OrgasmQuest, Losing Libido, Anti-Depressant Conundrum, Just Doing it, Forgetting Sex, Anger, Drowning, Treatment, Sex Drive, Insensitive Doctors, Staying Sex-Positive, Connecting with Pleasure, Advocating for Yourself, Medical Mystery Solved, Genital Numbness, Erectile Dysfunction, Conscious Sex Decisions, Control, Foggy Headed, Giving Up, Mental Illness Taboo, Robin Williams and Superhero Sex Stores. 

  • Multiple Orgasms with Joshua Grannell, Rebecca Alvarez and Allison Moon!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 15, 2015 at 8:24 pm

    THE FINGER TEST! Sandra investigates multiple orgasms on all bodies with the help of sex expert Rebecca Alvarez of Body Feminine, filmmaker and drag performer Joshua Grannell (Peaches Christ) and even a little Allison Moon (Girl Sex 101). We explore questions about different kinds of multiple orgasms, who can have them and how!  TOPICS: Drag celebrity superhero, Undercover sex, Drag gender, Sissy, John Waters, Rocky Horror, Heels vs Tucking, Corporate, Popular sex questions, Masturbation stats, Mirror test, Combo vs Back-to-back, Refractory, Ramping up, Male orgasm separation, Advanced Keeling, Bucket list, Penis towel exercise, Vaginal peace sign test, Penis popping out, Wet-small-and-weak, Tight college bag, Sufficient foreplay, Vacation sex, Uterus lifting, Male multiples, Anal orgasms, Touching the C,G,N, A and U spots, Peeing at ejaculation mystery, Spots on men, Million dollar spot, Taoism, Inguinal Canal, Spermatic Cord, Muffing, Spelunking and Tucking! 

  • Love Lab #2: Back For More
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 5, 2015 at 10:01 pm

    ANAL G-SPOTTING RETURNS! Sandra responds to listener voicemails on virginity at 27, orgasm issues with partners, fear of sleeping with someone you actually like for once, dating while visually-impaired, repeatedly being repulsed by dates until broken up, fair-trade free-range cage-free porn, anal g-spotting, opinions on what’s important for the first time having sex, will you be alone?, sex party selection and how to prepare a nervous partner and a series of beeps. Keep the magic alive. Leave Sandra a message at (310) 928-3261.

  • The Sex Nerds of NYC!
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 27, 2015 at 8:11 am

    WOLVERINE VS MYSTIQUE! Sandra takes on any question from the NYC Sex Nerd Meetup group, then she fires back a few. TOPICS: Internal Orgasm, Kegel Elevator Exercise, Squirting, Kegelcisor, Sex Books: “Blow Him Away,” “Red Hot Touch,” “SM 101,” “Guide to Getting it On,” “Urban Tantra,” Asexuality (the absence of sexual attraction), Visibility, Morrissey, Wolverine vs Mystique, Flash vs Superman, Nerds on Sex, Sex-Negative Drama, Nervous Partner, Tantric Sex, Yoga, Podcast Drama, Sex Nerd vs Educator, Jon Stewart, Catholicism Journey, Number of Sex Partners, Double Standard, Poly Processing and Hump Day as our sacred day.  If you’re in New York City, join the NYC Sex Nerds monthly hangout on Meetup.com!  

  • My Kinky Rut with Kevin Allison!
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 18, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    YELLOW FEVER! Comedian and storyteller Kevin Allison (Risk!, The State) stashes his favorite sex toy and poppers away and tells us how he got into and might get out of his kinky rut. TOPICS: Risk! Storytelling, Gay Before Kindergarten, Sex Clubs, Rimming, Njoy Pure Wand, Kink Aware Professionals, Mollena Williams, Poppers Addiction, Gay Male Culture, Skipper & Gilligan, Bears & Twinks, Giving Away Power, Wanting to Please, Service Dom, Daddy Coach, Sexy Guilt, Raised Catholic, Erotic Hypnosis, Jazz, Pandora’s Box, Dark Odyssey Kink Camp, Asian Men, Telling Stories, Taking Care of Yourself, Switching, Sex Therapy, Daddy/boy, Matchmaking and Healing.

  • Friends With Benefits with Eliza Skinner, Siouxsie Q, Allison Moon and Reid Mihalko!
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 13, 2015 at 1:08 am

    SLUT PROTOCOLS! Recorded live at SF Sketchfest, Sandra explores the good, the bad and the messy of benefitting it up in our friendships. Standup comedy from Eliza Skinner at the top of the show. TOPICS: Bad at it, Benefits, Ruining the Friendship, Friend’s Future Partners, Unrequited Love, Brain Juices, Pretty in Pink’s Duckie, Transactional Relationships, F*** Buddies, Facebook Input, Insular Lesbian Community. Tea Party Nightmare, Wanting Something More, Psychopaths, Changing Situations, Awkward Conversations, Breaking it off, Being Nice & Respectful, Inept & Insecure, Sluts, Mitigating Love, Limerence, Sex Once a Month, Dopamine, Facebook Stalking, Sleepovers, Weekend Getaways, Group Sex, Eye Contact, Learning from Porn Work and Avoiding the Weird.

  • Love Lab #1 – Valentine’s Day
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 7, 2015 at 8:29 pm

    Sandra responds to listener voicemails about birth control, getting a girlfriend, the problem with cowgirl, dating with too much armor on, and what to do about your erotic portrait displayed at your ex’s place. TOPICS: Virgin STDs, Trusting Yourself, IUD, Withdrawal, Intimacy, Professional Driving, Dating Site Disappointment, Self Worth, Self-Esteem, Empty Dating Site Inbox, Activity Partners, Meetup.com, Seeking Medical Attention, Clit Lacerations, Embitterment Toward Women, Deal with Past Hurt, Ex-Casual Friend, Fear of Seeming Dishonest or Untrustworthy, Obligation and Tasteful Nudes.      If you’d like to ask Sandra a question, leave a message at (310) 928-3261. 

  • Same Sex Symbol with Cameron Esposito!
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 29, 2015 at 4:28 am

    SCISSORING DEBATE CONTINUED! Sandra finds out how comedian Cameron Esposito’s new album title, Same Sex Symbol intersects with pop culture, LGBTQIA visibility and the key to dating. TOPICS: Rhea Butcher, TV Specials, 10 Years a Comic, Lesbian, Dating Boys, Women Friendships, Obvious Child, Vaginal Birth, Biological Clock, Dogs vs Babies, #murphthederph, Lesbian Sex Symbol, Not Butch or Femme, Fashion Advice, Uniqlo, David Bowie, Varied Gender Expression, Confidence, Transparent, Jeffrey Tambor vs Jared Leto’s Acceptance Speeches, Trans Visibility, Brokeback Mountain, Improv, How to Be a Lesbian, Secrets in the Improv Details, Becoming Dateable, Your Source of Power, Survival Tactics, Men’s Gender Norms, Working on Yourself, Shy, BDSM, Becoming Funnier, Joke Secrets, Dreaming in Jokes, Talking About Feelings, The Comedy Bible, Feminine Comique and Double Dildos!

  • BBW Porn AMA with Kelly Shibari!
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 21, 2015 at 6:30 pm

    MILF, GILF and TILF! Japanese plus size porn star Kelly Shibari answers prying questions about porn lingo, vaginal stamina and retiring well from the industry she loves. TOPICS: James Deen, Asian Age Progression, Growing Up in Tokyo, Getting into Porn, Bucket List, Plus Size Sex Ed Video, Jessica Drake, Star Showcase, First Anal Scene Preparation, Cervix Punching, Cuddling, Tease Footage, Couples Porn, Defining Gonzo, Reverse Bukkake, Dress Sizes in Fashion vs Porn, Terms like: Thick vs Chubby vs BBW vs SSBBW, Beyonce, Niche vs Mainstream, Alexis Texas, Spinner Height, Women of Size, Face Sitting, Weight-based Restraint Play, “Stripping Across America,” Men in Porn, Evan Stone, The Nineties, Xander Corvus, and Exit Strategies!

  • The Meta Episode with Dave Ross
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 14, 2015 at 8:00 am

    BECOMING YOURSELF! Sandra clarifies her New Year’s announcement with ex-cohost Dave Ross (Terrified podcast), exploring their shifting identities, burnout and what it means for their careers. TOPICS: A Private Private Life, Feelings in Standup Comedy, Revealing Secrets, Losing Touch with Yourself, Sex Nerd vs Sex Educator, Public Scrutiny, Rape Jokes, Finding Your Voice, “Feelings Guy,” Being All of Yourself, Self-Obsession, Dogs, Licking Your Own Genitals, Defining Burnout, Sketch, Memoir, Codependence, Brand, Co-Hosting Philosophy, Jackie Kashian and the Nerdist Holiday Party.    

  • Adult Super Powers with KJ Middlebrooks!
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 12, 2015 at 8:16 pm

    POLY-SATURATED! A Zen master of his own emotions, Sandra’s relationship mentor talks about the skills he uses to navigate his poly lifestyle. TOPICS: Catholic Wine, Maximum Bandwidth, Knowing Yourself, Dating Your Species, Choosing the Single Life, Ultimatums, Protecting Your Partner by Lying, American Idol, Long Distance Relationship, Getting Cheated On, First Poly Relationship, Veto Power, New Relationship Energy, Triggers, Refusing Comparisons, Patience, Commitment Phobia, High School, Postponing Passion, Hook-ups, Dirty & Wrong, Choosing Love, No as a Complete Sentence, Aging and Disability and Abundance vs Excess.

  • Phone Sex New Year with Ashley Manta
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 3, 2015 at 6:39 pm

    STEALTH-ER-BATE. Sandra gets real about her deal lately and sex educator Ashley Manta throws down naughty tips for hot phone sex. TOPICS: Sex Nerd vs Sex Ed, Feeling Feelings, Planning for Phone Sex, Why vs How & What, Connective Experience, Verbalizing Sexy, Reading Erotica, Practice Your Words, Narrating, Honesty, Bluetooth, Common Barriers, Breath, Auditory Feedback, Toys, Smiling Sounds,  Moaning Tips, No Limitations and Negotiating Phone Sex. 

  • Spanish Sensuality & Science with Pere Estupinyà
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 20, 2014 at 5:21 am

    HOW TO FLIRT IN COLOMBIA. Author and science communicator Pere Estupinya sheds brilliant light on sex science and sensuality in the Spanish speaking world. TOPICS: Catalan vs Spanish, Male Multiple Orgasm, Scientist at a Sex Party, Orgasm Physiology, Female Ejaculation, Men vs Women, The Clit-G Spot Connection, Sponge Innervation, Vagus Nerve Magic, Spinal Cord Injury Sex, Latin and South American Sensuality vs Gringo Sexuality, Hooking Up in NYC, Flirting in Colombia, Sex Ed vs Science, HPV, The Importance of Sexual Diversity and the Value of Sex Science.

  • Captain Handsome with Liam McIntyre!
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 11, 2014 at 5:52 pm

      JAWLINES! Sandra asks actor Liam McIntyre (Spartacus) forward questions about what it’s like to be attractive, learning about fame, true love and how she judged him too soon. TOPICS: Good Genetic Stock, Getting Objectified, Chubby Bullied Kid, San Diego Comic Con, Intense Weight Loss, Objectification, Samuel L. Jackson, Fame, Status, Attractive Assumptions, Narcissism, terrible with Women, True Love, The Game, Men’s Health Cover, Skinny to Beefy, on Set Story, Passion, Pretty Bonuses, Revisionist History, Non-Conformist Flabbiness and Mystery. 

  • Sex in Comedy with Matt Braunger
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 3, 2014 at 7:40 pm

      GETTING LAID THROUGH LAUGHTER! Hilarious comedian, podcaster (Ding-Donger via Nerdist) and actor Matt Braunger shares his sharp insight into the world of sex in standup comedy on both sides of the mic. TOPICS: Last Names, Sex Cave, Rancor, Writing Sex Jokes, April Richardson, Filthy On-Stage, Pushing Buttons, Flirting, Hitting on the Help,  Getting Hit On, Bombing, Unsexy Nudity, Richard Pryer, PSAs, Trying Standup Comedy, Sex Specifics, Making People Laugh, Free Speech, Sex Negative Jokes, Alternative Comedy, Patton Oswalt, Riffing, Hitting on a Comic, Making Mistakes vs Taking Chances and Boners.

  • Sex on Top with Nina Hartley
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 27, 2014 at 2:52 am

    WORK YOUR ANGLES! Enjoy this special holiday romp with nurse and adult super star Nina Hartley!  Celebrating 30 years in porn, Nina shares the steps to giving pleasure in the driver’s seat. TOPICS: Technique vs Attitude, Privilege, Sex Tricks, Intercourse, Coital Alignment Technique, Rhythm, Steps to Wielding a Penis, Empathy to Pleasure, Anterior vs Posterior Walls, Lateral Fornix vs Cervical Os, Fourchette, Lever and Fulcrum, Introitus vs Vestibule, Tolerating vs Craving Penetration, Real Life Arousal, Pre-cum, “Master of O,” The Sopranos, Lady Astride, Narrow Chairs, Tapping Out, Threesomes and Sapiosexuality.  

  • Being Beautiful with Justine Joli!
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 22, 2014 at 4:17 am

    COVERING UP THE NERD! Sandra asks porn star and edible maker, Justine Joli, inappropriate questions about the pros & cons of being beautiful. Find out what happens when “the world reflects something that [we] don’t see.” TOPICS: OkCupid, Finally Seeing Yourself, Bullying, Mullet, Catcalling, Aria Giovanni, Body Dysmorphia, Lesbian Sex, Body Issues, Ideal Porn Star, Tattoos, Bonnie Rotten, Belladonna, “Transexual Fairy Godmother Poop Show,” Plastic Surgery Addiction, Dr. Victoria Zdrok, Boob Jobs, Emily Marilyn, Adult Circumcision, Weight Loss, Makeup as War Paint, Armoring Up, Staying Perfect, Halo Effect, Having Superpowers, Feeling Inauthentic and Detached, Covering Up the Nerd Underneath, Korean Skin Brushing, Dangerous Attention, Aging, Beauty Secrets, Jealousy,  Getting Free Drinks, Sad Puppy Dog Face, How to Reject Someone, Hot Men, Fabio and Weed Jerky!

  • Sex Prep – Your Erotic Personality with Cyndi Darnell
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 16, 2014 at 6:41 pm

    GETTING THE HOT SEX YOU WANT! Australian sex therapist and coach Cyndi Darnell shares how to lay the groundwork for expanding your sex life. TOPICS: Coach vs Therapist, Depths of Sexuality, Sloppy Communication, Erotic Fear, Showing Desire, Feminist Men, Learning to do it, Reproduction, Cooking, Hottest Experiences, Jack Morin, Expanding Your Sex Life, Compliment Sandwich, Conscious Sex, Fantasy, Ruining the Mood, Speaking Up for Yourself, Needing to be Liked vs Honorable and How Your Parents Effect Your Sex Life!

  • She Comes First with Ian Kerner!
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 7, 2014 at 6:56 pm

    FOR THRILL SEEKERS AND COMFORT CREATURES! Sandra fangirls out over Ian Kerner Ph.D, MFT, sex therapist and author of the bestselling oral sex book, “She Comes First.” They explore the myriad reasons why the book hits home, how to create a sex space that helps our minds deactivate and surrender, the link between female arousal and stress, and a refreshing perspective on porn. TOPICS: Unbearable Lightness of Being, Fruity Book Covers, Written for Men, Women Fans, Strunk & White, Philosophical Approach, Sexual Cripple, Satisfying Women, Intercourse Discourse, An Alternative Path to Pleasure, From Tormented to Joyful, Deconstruction, “Cunnilingus Class,” Nina Hartley, A Modest Approach, Mental Deactivation, Fantasizing During Sex, Seduction, Theory of Courtship, Physiological vs Mental Aspects of Sex, Safe Space for Fantasy, Core Erotic Themes, Jack Morin, Esther Perel, The Paradox of Cozy & Thrilling, Analysis as Inhibiting Arousal, and finally the Pros and Cons of Porn Usage.  

  • Sex & Death with Caitlin Doughty!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 31, 2014 at 5:17 pm

    NECROPHILIA EXPLAINED! Mortician, author and founder of The Order of the Good Death, Caitlin Doughty joins Sandra to explore the surprising ways death and sex intersect. TOPICS: Sex Party Etiquette, Ask a Mortician, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes, Death-Positivity, Goths, Morbid Titillation, Increasing Sex Drive, Life Begets Death, Relationship Options, Funeral Industry Inside Scoop, Instincts, Vagina-colored Glasses, Halloween, Zombies, the Taboo of Sadness & Jealousy, Death’s Ankle, Carpe diem and Seize the butt stuff! Also, the best “Clueless” reference in the known universe.  

  • Poly Nitty Gritty with Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 24, 2014 at 7:07 am

    RULES, AGREEMENTS AND BOUNDARIES, OH MY!  “More Than Two” authors Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert offer a problem solving toolkit for your relationship, no matter what the style, while examining polyamory as a cultural and ethical system for channeling non-monogamy. TOPICS: Poly Theory, Swinging, Casual Sex, Small Town Swingers, “Pearl Harbor,” “Frozen,” “Drinking Buddies,” “Her,” Intrinsic Relationship Styles, Military Couples, Moral Practicalities, Con Sex, 100 Mile Rule, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” Polyfidelity, Polyfamily vs Tribe, Religious Polygamy, Pitfalls of Passive and Triangular Communication, British “Last Biscuit” Problem, Metamour, Listening Skills of Direct Communication, Rules vs Agreements vs Boundaries, Kitty Ears, 2 Ethical Commandments, Reversal Thingy-ness, Training Wheels, Self Work and Regional Online Dating!

  • The Silent Duck with Allison Moon plus Jess & Roe!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 17, 2014 at 3:20 am

    NO PUNCHING ALLOWED! Girl Sex 101 author and sex educator Allison Moon clarifies misunderstandings about her favorite activity: vaginal fisting. THEN Jess & Roe give us a hand with 201 and 301 techniques. TOPICS: Accidental Fisting, Sex Menu, Lesbian Stuff, Being Inside, Connecting Deeply, Extreme Stereotypes, Tightness Myth, Snapping Back, Squirting, Vaginal Muscle Activity, Koko the Gorilla, Pregnancy Prep, Aroused Labor, Lube, Fingering+, Internal Massage and Talking to Girls. THEN: Fisting Friends, Performance Anxiety, The Purpose of the Pinky, Pussy Demolition, Kung Fu Grip, Gloves, Social Judgement, Handballing, Fancy Double Hand Move, Withdrawl and NO PUNCHING!  

  • Sex Spotlight: Keith and The Girl
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 10, 2014 at 2:32 am

    GHOST PENIS, BREAKING UP AND CELEBRITY FACES! Sandra makes friends with the insightful podcast pioneer duo Keith Malley and Chemda of Keith and The Girl. TOPICS: “Staying Together for the Baby,” Mutual Breakup, Louis C.K.’s Divorce Wisdom, Popping the Emotional Question, Feeling Like a Princess, Trans Identity, Lauren Hennessey, Accidental Activism, Trans Expectations, Plastic Surgery, Angelina Jolie, Meg Ryan & James Spader, Facelifts, Body Judgements, Lorde & Kelly Clarkson, Glam Rock, Makeup Phobia, Strap-ons, Masculine Identity, Being Seen, and Aging Gracefully.

  • The Nice Guy with Dr. Nerdlove
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 3, 2014 at 6:43 pm

    OWN YOUR DESIRE! Dating advice expert, Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove chimes in on solutions, struggles and pitfalls of the nice guy. TOPICS: Pickup Artists, Erotic Masquerade Drama, Kino Escalating, Rejection, Cognitive Dissonance, Transactional Friendships, “Pretty in Pink,” Duckie, One-Sided Affection, Is nice good enough?, Confirmation Bias, The Dark Triad of Psychopathy, Machiavellianism & Narcissism, Douchbags, Captain Jack Harkness of Dr. Who & Torchwood, Halo Effect, Social Engineering, Letting it Go and When to make your move!

  • Sex Spotlight: Cory Silverberg
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 25, 2014 at 8:19 pm

      Witness Sandra make new friends with author, sex ed heavy hitter and straight shooter Cory Silverberg. TOPICS: Rubbing One Off, White Men, Journalism, Nerds, Anxiety, Self-Awareness, Squelching, Erotic Hypnosis, Aroused Ovulation, Sex Science Snags, Individuals vs Populations, Sex Writing, Flirting, Dating & Disability, Low Bar Sex Ed, Sex vs Reproduction, Gender, Kickstarter, Intro Drama, Person of Color, Aggressive Sperm vs Passive Egg (myths) and P-i-V Sex. Checkout Cory’s phenomenal children’s book, “What Makes a Baby.”

  • Sex Drive with Dr. Emily Nagoski plus Allison Moon!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 19, 2014 at 8:28 pm

    Author and Super Expert Emily Nagoski Ph.D. reveals a new world of knowledge in understanding sex drive. PLUS! Allison Moon chimes in on cunnilingus. TOPICS: Pleasure Plateau of Alcohol, Valley of Regret, Buck Rogers, Desire: Spontaneous vs Responsive vs Context-sensitive, Sex Break & Gas Pedals, Fight or Flight or Freeze, Shaking it Off, Other Drives, The Little Monitor, The Pit of Despair and How to shift goals for maximum success!

  • Nerdist Podcast Network Super Panel
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 15, 2014 at 3:56 pm

    Live from SDCC 2014, it’s the Nerdist Podcast Super Panel with Matt Mira (Nerdist, James Bonding), Jonah Ray (Nerdist, Jonah Raydio), Janet Varney (The JV Club), Cole Stratton (Pop My Culture), Gil Letelier (The Mutant Season), Ben Blacker (Nerdist Writers Panel, Nerdist Comics Panel, Thrilling Adventure Hour), Ben Acker (Thrilling Adventure Hour), Sandra Daugherty (Sex Nerd Sandra) and Dave Ross (Terrified)!

  • Erotic Hypnosis: Part 2 with Tish, Gavin and Mark Wiseman, Live in DC!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 10, 2014 at 10:36 pm

    HYPNOTIC TELEPORTATION! Sandra’s mind gets blown with stories from newbie practitioners Gavin & Tish, plus expert Mark Wiseman sticks around to chime in! TOPICS: Hypnotyping, Sub Safety, Chair Malfunctions,Word Choice,  Hypno-Friend-With-Benefits, Fractionation, Mutual Induction, Shrooms, Driving Metaphor, Beginner’s Luck, Post-Hypnotic Suggestions, Breast Play, Pleasure Training, Cylon, The Fermata, Time Control Fantasy, Mind Frack, Placebo Effect, NLP, and Brain Scanning Science!

  • Erotic Hypnosis – Part 1 with Mark Wiseman, Live in DC!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 7, 2014 at 8:38 pm

    Sandra investigates an alluring topic she knows nothing about with 15 year hypnosis veteran and author, Mark Wiseman! TRIGGER WARNING: Near the end, a hypnotic demonstration with submissive Dani brings about… intense results. TOPICS: Trance States, Dropping, Hypnogogic & Hypnopompic States, Falling Asleep, Theta Brain Waves, Finding Your Hypnotism Voice, Drawing People In, Chest Pounding Exercise, Kink, Orgasming on Command, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Social Skills, Building Rapport, Mirroring & Matching Body Language, Bill Clinton, Temple Stroking, Kinesthetic Modality, Sex Noises, Hot Buttons, Service Dom, Hypno-Bondage, Belief & Expectation, Context as Key, Classical Conditioning. Stay tuned for Stories in Part 2!  

  • Sex Geek Bus
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 1, 2014 at 5:16 am

      CROWDSOURCING LOVE & SEX! Coming back from Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sandra asks fellow campers about how to find love, how to get laid and other tidbits. TOPICS: Creating a relationship that befits you, Finding compatibility, Being aggressively yourself, Filtering people, Setting expectations, Loving yourself first, Don’t underestimate yourself or others, Reflecting on self-treatment, Fill your cup first, Loving from a strong place, Diability and the right to sex, Asking for assistance, Be interested not interesting, Eye contact, Find people who like sex the way you do, Make yourself comfortable, Rejection, List your accomplishments, Fill yourself up before someone else does, Let them discover you, Butter churn, Care & Feeding manual, Smiling, Breathing and Laughter, Making noise, Know how much you can give to yourself and remember folks, the vagina can take a lot of pressure. Thanks to everyone who shared!

  • Applied Arousal with Pamela Madsen plus Jason Porath!
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 21, 2014 at 5:28 pm

    HAND HUMPING! Author and advocate Pamela Madsen teaches Sandra to rock out with her arousal out. BUT FIRST! Sandra ask Jason a prying question. TOPICS: Ball Cupping, Flaccid State Pleasure, Erectile Dysfunction, Losing Sight of Pleasure, Low Libido, Lotus Lift Meditation, Finding Arousal, Religious Movement, Aroused Meditation, The Heel Trick, Depak Chopra, Childhood Shaming, Numbness, Erotic Energy, Inner Pharmacy, Kegels, All Day Arousal, Lighting Up Our Bodies, Observer Sex, Self Esteem, Un-armouring Ourselves, Roleplay, Power and the 3 questions to ask yourself when you’re turned on!  

  • Oh Joy Sex Toy – Part 2, LIVE in Portland with EriKa Moen and Amy Miller!
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 14, 2014 at 12:26 am

    THE ORGASMATRON! Continuing onward with the creator of the adorable webcomic “Oh Joy Sex Toy,” Erika Moen and comedian Amy Miller, Sandra ponders sex toys, workshops and the sexier side of Portland. TOPICS: Bad Dragon Toys, Clitoral Slumber, Sybian, Erika’s First Sex Ed Workshop, Deep-throating, She Bop, Palates, Strip Clubs, Hypothesis, Culture of Excess, Courtney Love & Kurt Cobain, Being Vanilla, Horny All the Time, Ball Kicking, Sex Communities of PDX, Theories, 3nder Threesome App, So Many Holes, Eiffel Tower, Sex Party Decisions, Club Sesso vs Kinky Salon, Webcomic Advice, BDSM Stories and Vaginal Plugs.

  • Oh Joy Sex Toy – Part 1, LIVE in Portland with Erica Moen and Amy Miller!
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 7, 2014 at 6:41 pm

    WHAT’S UNDER THE BLANKET? Sandra flies to Portland to podcast live with the creator of the wildly popular webcomic “Oh Joy Sex Toy,” Erika Moen. BUT FIRST, comedian Amy Miller spills it about dating, sex and love in Portland. TOPICS: Casual Sex, Dating Younger Men, “No Worries,” Being a Sex Educator vs Cartoonist, Dar, Penny Arcade’s Robert Khoo, The OJST Origin Story, The Dick & Vagina Crowd, Battle Hardened C*nt, Hitachi vs Doxy, Spontaneous Orgasms, Minna Limon vs Je Joue MiMi, 5 Mystery Sex Toys, Delivering “The Buisness,” Nipple Antennae, Dalek Roleplay, Bath House, Swinger Club, Butt Stuff and the toy that leaves Erika speechless.

  • Quickie – Wet Newlyweds
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 2, 2014 at 4:31 pm

    CAN YOU BE TOO LUBRICATED? Sandra answers her inbox, wrestling with a genital and relationship conundrum. TOPICS: Erotic Hypnosis, Quickie Lengths, Sex Friction, Fast Sex, Kitty Litter, Selfish Spouses, Being on Team Fun and The Whole Point of Sex.  

  • Sex Dolls and More with Matt Krivicke & Bronwen Keller plus Kurt Braunohler!
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 25, 2014 at 6:56 am

    THE UNCANNY VALLEY AND THE MOST AMAZING BALLS! Sinthetics makers Matt Krivicke and Bronwen Keller help Sandra explore the world of the most lifelike, anatomically correct silicone dolls on the market. But first, comedian Kurt Braunohler weighs in. TOPICS: Judgement, Fantasy, Threesomes, Mannequins and Art Pieces, “Lars and the Real Doll,” Ownership, Origins, Art, Life Saving, Creepy Factor, Torso Sex, Penis Size, Teledildonics, Robotics, Male Dolls, Replicating Life, Mad Scientist, Penis Molding, Labia Art, Vulva Perfume, Bags of Buttholes, Vagankle, Doll Gape, Doll Tongue, Collectors, Forums and Community, Loneliness, Client Stories, Compassion, Body Mechanics and How to Meet the Dolls!

  • Hook-up Culture & History with Dr. Lisa Wade
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 17, 2014 at 3:39 am

    Sociologist Dr. Lisa Wade reveals the fascinating reality behind hook-up culture, what it is, and surprising ways to do it better. TOPICS: College Students Trapped on Campus, Choice vs Obligation, Expectation, Narrowly-defined Sexual Exploration, Orgies, College Parties, Paula England, Science!, Orchestrated Chaos, 1920s: The Crazy Years, Courting vs Dating, Heterosexual Socializing, Makeup & Dieting Origins, Slaves & Prostitutes, The Charleston, 1940s: Same Sex Experimentation, Richard von Krafft-Ebing, McCarthyism, Foreign Wives, 1950s: Lock it Down!, 1960s: Sexual Revolution!, Promiscuity, Value of the Masculine vs Feminine, Andro-Centrism vs Sexism, Emotionaless Sex, Broken Sexuality?, Resiliency, Respect-Kindness-Trust vs Desperate-Needy-Clingy, Rules of Hook-up Culture, Benevolent Casual Sex, Attachment Management and Friends with Benefits.

  • 13 Years a Boyfriend with Kurt Braunohler
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 9, 2014 at 11:36 pm

    EARLY SEX & LOVE! Comedian Kurt Braunohler helps Sandra wrestle with the question, “Can we be fulfilled in early relationships?” TOPICS: Judgement, Rumshrpinga(?????), “This American Life,” Falling in Temporary Love, Casual Sex, Feeling Resentful & Unfulfilled, Inevitability vs Possibility, Scared & Alone, “Chinatown Bust,” Dismissing Doubts, Grass is Greener, The Ideal Person, Persona, Fantasizing & Flirting with Others, Romantic Discontent, Exploring, Settling into Roles, “They Came Together,” Soul Mates, Completing Yourself, Choosing Your Person, Trapped, Handling Loneliness, Living Alone, Boredom, Inner Tardis, Breaking Up vs Growing Together, Cheating, Baby Fever, Inauthenticity and Sexual History.

  • Sex & Alcohol… And the Supreme Court with Adam Rogers plus Allan Gelbard, Esq!
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 3, 2014 at 7:22 am

    DOES BOOZE MAKE US HORNY? Author and science journalist Adam Rogers (“Proof: The Science of Booze”) takes us through the sex & alcohol laboratories and reveals all the butt stuff along the way. BUT FIRST! Attorney Allan Gelbard explains this week’s Supreme Court decision placing the employer between a woman and her doctor. TOPICS: The Effect of Ethanol on the Brain, Magic Mushrooms, Scientific Mysteries, Placebo Booze, “Drunken Comportment,” Soda Pop Opiates, Drunken Promiscuity, Unsafe Sex, Increased Aggression, Gin vs Bourbon, Psychoactive Mechanisms, Thujone, Horny-Making, Inebriated Arousal, Erections, Hangovers and THE POWER OF SUGGESTION! BONUS: Contraception, Hobby Lobby, Enforcing Beliefs on Others, Religious Freedom, Justice Ginsberg, Corporate Taxation, Fertility Issues, 401k Hypocrisy, Viagra, Unpaid Maternity Leave, Election Repercussions, Voting, Sex Positive Professionals and Critical Reasoning.

  • Married Sex with Jackie Kashian!
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 26, 2014 at 4:49 am

    SHARK ROLEPLAY & SECRET CRUSHES! Comedian & late bloomer Jackie Kashian (The Dork Forest, This Will Make an Excellent Horcrux) dishes on finding her spouse and developing great bedroom teamwork! TOPICS: Comedian Socializing, Depression Contests, Horcrux, Polyamory, Ultimatums, First Boyfriend, Comedy Sex Life, Cheating, Late Blooming, Making Friends, Joke Wisdom, Porn vs Comedy, Money, Tools of Comedy, Generalizing Women, Online Dating Strategy, The Universal Friend Zone, Her Love Story, Sweat Equity, 60 Year-Old Vagina, Sex Abuse, Sexual Fantasies, Triggers. One Night Stand, Game Mechanics, LARPing, @Midnight and remember folks, sex is supposed to be fun!  

  • Life with Boobs with Rachel Butera plus another Rachael!
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 19, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    Comedian and actress Rachel Butera (Howard Stern, America’s Got Talent) shares how great breast fondling can feel… if done well. Then we discover the mysteries of bra engineering. TOPICS: Rosie O’Donnel Impression, Breast Slang (Jugs vs Titties vs Boobies vs Knockers), Boobs in the Raw, Good Cleavage, Sex Physics, The World’s Greatest Tits, Bra Math, 42C vs 38DD, Breast Pawing vs Cupping, The Underneath, Caressing Tips, BE THE BRA!, Fondling, Starting with Broad Strokes, Nipple Orgasms, Butt Cheeks, THE IDEAL TIT EXPERIENCE, Tongue Flicking, Almost-Areola, Tongue Swooping, Kick Ass Casual Sex, Boob Smacking, Pleasurable Jiggling, Porn Phantom Sensation, Cleavage Politics, An Air of Mystery. THEN: One-Handed Bra Unclasping, How to Effectively Put on a Bra, Engineering and the Magic of Side Boob Smooshing.

  • 1-900-Phone-Sex
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 12, 2014 at 7:20 am

      BLOWJOB SIMULATIONS & SEX IMPROV! Comedian Moshe Kasher and Sex Educator Ashley Manta share their stories at both ends of a phone sex chat line. TOPICS: Virgin Adolescent Phone Sex, Bar Mitzvah Money, Gay Chat Lines, Orientation Theories, Manikins, The Phone Bill, Virginity, Deaf Phone Sex Story, Comedy Special, Foreign Workarounds, Filipino Mystery Call. THEN: Frisky Feminist Press, Sounding Sexy, Fake Ad Pictures, Sex Work, Popular Requests, Fake Gagging, Cigarette Fetishists, Fart Noises, Mirroring, Torture Fantasy, Favorite Callers, Body Quivering, Fake Orgasms and Alabama Preachers!

  • Golden Showers with Ken Melvoin-Berg, Sunny Megatron and Damon Holzum!
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 5, 2014 at 10:58 pm

      TASTE THE RAINBOW! Sandra explores the athletic world of water sports. TOPICS: Squiks, Piss Play, Submission, Sterility Myths, Maple Syrup, Hydration, Open Relationships, Babygirl, Nipple Clamp Ingenuity, Taboo, Urine Enema, Anatomy, Hollow Butt Plugs, Urine Bong, Humiliation, Alpha Dogs, Puppy Pits, Gender, Medical Concerns, Pee vs Clowns, Acquired Taste, Gag Reflex, Beer, Urine Neutralizers, Corn Flakes, Vulnerability, Asparagus, Logistics, Getting Pee-shy, Chugging, Pungency and  the age old question of blood vs spit vs pee. Yum! 

  • Rejection, Rage and YesAllWomen with Dr. Chris Donaghue and Barbie Davenporte!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 29, 2014 at 7:08 pm

    TRIGGER WARNING! Sandra searches for understanding and insight in the wake of the Isla Vista shootings. Therapist Dr. Chris Donaghue and writer Barbie Davenporte weigh in. TOPICS: Terrorism, Mental Health, Relationality, Chicken or Egg, Fragmentation, Disassociation, Fox News’ Homosexual Impulses, Othering, Entitlement, Babies & Puppies, Misogyny, Gender as Social Construct, Universal Needs, Alpha and Beta Males, Healthy Anxiety, #NotAllMen, Compassion & Empathy. THEN: Feminism, Equality for All, More Hashtags, Comic-Con Upskirt Photo, Parking Lots, Gay Bars, Jamaican Street Harassment and Club Humping.

  • Sex Prep: Body Image with Elle Chase and Elaine!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 21, 2014 at 8:00 pm

    FEELINGS ARE EVERYWHERE! What do we do when we feel repulsed by our own body? Elaine shares her experience with body dysmorphia and sex educator Elle Chase shares tools to find outer peace. TOPICS: Louis C.K., OCD, Dr. Ari Winograd, Cultivating Sources of Beauty, Cellulite, Pubic Hair, Seeking Help, Nerds, Escaping Feelings, Self-Help Pitfalls, Sandra’s Bully, Embodied Feelings, Deep-throating. THEN: Can you handle that nothing is wrong with you? Beach Body, Big n Tall Shops, Looking Healthy, Healthy Ways to Compliment Someone, Feeling Good vs Sexy, Relationship Red Flags, Charisma, Sexy vs Sensual, Food Metaphors, Finding Your Sexy, Mirror Masturbation, Feeling Guilty, and FYI No One Cares (what you look like).

  • Sex & Comics with Matt Fraction, Dean Trippe, plus Jason Porath!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 14, 2014 at 6:42 pm

      Sandra explores the Venn diagram of sex & comics with creators Jason Porath (Rejected Princesses), Dean Trippe (Something Terrible) and Matt Fraction (Sex Criminals)! TOPICS: Batman Theory, “Saga,” “Y the Last Man,” Tina Fey, Joker, Women in Refridgerators, Tropes, “Alias,” “Frozen,” “Invincible” Spoilers on Issue #110. // Sexual Abuse, Batman, The Multiverse, Dr. Who, Comic-con Stories, The Taxi Driver, Sexual Healing, Robin, Time Travel, Changing Our Narratives. // Alter Egos, James Bond, Chip Zdarsky, “The Fermata,” “Out of This World,” Billy Wilder, Selling Sex and a new, surprising fan base.

  • Picking Your Partner with Elle Chase and Kate Loree, LMFT
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 8, 2014 at 2:10 am

    LOVE AT FIRST SITE & THE SPEED OF ATTRACTION! Sandra searches for the facts on how to choose someone who is right for you. Sex educator Elle Chase shares her current dilemma, while therapist Kate Loree throws down some knowledge on what the person you fall in love with says about YOU! TOPICS: Ego, Ignoring Your Instincts, Life Experience, Storytelling, Dating Site Fails, Young Guys, Courting Process, The List, Valid Feelings, New Relationship Energy, Neurochemicals, Imago Therapy, Falling in Love, Corrective Experience, Emotional IQ, Breakup Pain, The Known vs Unknown, Exhilaration and Finding a Growth-Oriented Partner. P.S. DON’T DATE WHEN YOU’RE LONELY!

  • Struggling with Monogamy – Part 2! Live in DC with Twanna Hines, Jenn Tisdale and Pere Estupinyà!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 1, 2014 at 6:33 am

    MORE DRAMA! Comedian Jenn Tisdale, sex educator Twanna Hines and several audience members including science journalist Pere Estupinyà weight in! TOPICS: Jealousy, Security, Giving Up, Monogoamy vs Marriage, OkTwitter, Depression, Swinging Monogamists, “Sexually Social,” This American Life, Paradox of Choice, Online Dating, Dying Alone, “Manic Pixie Dream Girl,” Codependence, Personal Growth, “Fewer the Merrier,” Halo Effect of Monogamy, Social vs Sexual Monogamy, The Science of Falling in Love and THE BEST ACCENT EVER.

  • Struggling with Monogamy, LIVE in DC with Twanna Hines and Jenn Tisdale (Part 1)
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 24, 2014 at 5:01 pm

    DRAMA! Sex Educator Twanna Hines and comedian Jenn Tisdale help Sandra explore the myriad questions of monogamy. TOPICS: Dating Complications, When a Relationship Begins, Denying Feelings, Ongoing Intention, James Deen, Being a Good Person, One-Sided Monogamy, Keeping Secrets, Managing Your Relationship, Appreciating What You Have, Runaway Train, Attraction, Guilt, Flirting, Needing Attention & Jealousy. Stay tuned next week when we pickup on jealousy… AND BEYOND!

  • Sex Writer’s Block
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 17, 2014 at 4:55 am

      KINK CONTRACTS, LOVE LETTERS & SEX GUIDES. Lauren Marie Flemming a.k.a. Queerie Bradshaw shares easy ways for writing to improve your love & sex life. PLUS Gregory Scott a.k.a. UBK of Kush Audio tries to figure out why Sandra feels broken. Good luck, UBK! TOPICS: Small Town Girl, Gonorrhea, Sex & Loss, Breakups, Postcards, Love Letters, Negotiating Consent, Law Degree, Sharing Fantasies, Analogue, Depression Jar, Truth or Dare, Pen & Paper Fetish, Frisky Feminist Press, Twitter, Steve Almond, Showing-not-Telling, Yes/Hell Yes/Maybe/Not Really/Hell No List, Need/Want/Can’t List, Erotica, Flying Wish Paper and Hard Truths. THEN: Nanowrimo, Commitment, Choosing a Topic, Frustration, Memoir, Feeling Selfish, Gay Face on a Plane, Pseudonym, Kinds of Artists, Finishing Things and Sex & Music. 

  • Leather Master/slave Contestants Orpheus & Indigo plus Jenny Fine!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 11, 2014 at 12:18 am

    WHAT IS A LEATHER DADDY? Orpheus & Indigo are back, answering Sandra’s questions about the mysterious world of leather, leading up to their entry in the SoCal Master/slave Contest (sclms.net). Artist Jenny Fine helps Sandra prepare. TOPICS: Fish Panties, Depression, Leather Puppy, Police Academy, Fractals, 1950s Relationships, Fitting In, Angry Black Woman, Anger, Whipped, Emotional Enslavement, Leather Mythos, WWII, Tom of Finland, Earning Your Boots, Poly Relationships, Quad Geometry and Hook Suspensions!

  • The Science of Pleasure & Pain with Adam Whitman
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 2, 2014 at 7:07 pm

    NERVE NINJAS & BLINDFOLD SCIENCE! Physical Therapist Adam Whitman takes Sandra on a sensual tour of our nervous system. Oh THAT’S why that feels like that! Body awareness for the win! TOPICS: Fitness, Muscle vs Nerves, Lying Patients, Words for Pain, Bend Over Magic, Two-Point Discrimination, Sensory Cortex, Fun Experiments, Healing Headaches, Stereognosis, Proprioception, Layering Sensation, Graphesthesia, Light Touch/Pain/Temperature vs Vibration/Proprioception/Fine Touch, Whole Body Sensation, Orgasm Tips, Nerve Pathways, Eastern vs Western Medicine, Myokinesthetics, Reciprocal Inhibition, Muscle Flexing & Orgasm Training, Genitals in the Brain, Changing Blood Flow, Caveman Hand, Massage, Spanking, Ticklishness, plus a BONUS look at scar tissue’s unique play potential!

  • Sex Work with Siouxsie Q plus Matt Kirshen!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 26, 2014 at 5:07 pm

    USING SEX TO SELL SEX! Sex worker, podcaster and writer Siouxsie Q sets Sandra straight on the sex industry. Comedian & podcaster Matt Kirshen shares surprising insight into sex work, comedy and the universe. TOPICS: Bad Day at Work, Lusty Lady, Whorientation, Firefly’s Inara, Good vs Bad Sex Work, Politics, Human Rights, Emotional Health, Violence & Exploitation, The Happy Hooker Notion, Selling Sex, Annie Sprinkle, Companion Services, Self-Care, “Prostitute,” Choice & Coercion, Criminalizing the Job, “Johns,” Slixa, Better Crime Fighting.

  • Casual Sex with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 20, 2014 at 5:48 am

    FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS? Sex Researcher and Developmental Psychologist Dr. Zhana Vrangalova geeks out on casual sex’s effect on mental health. Facts are presented, myths are busted and she sets us straight on whether someone must always gets hurt. PLUS BONUS SEX DUNGEON STORY! Sandra drags a vanilla friend to a kinky theme park. Feelings ensue. TOPICS: Casual Fling, Early Warning Signs, Tiny Breakups, Mental Health Factors, Defining it, F*** Buddies, The Romantic Continuum, Commitment, Positive vs Negative Reactions, Emotional Well Being, Authenticity, Safety, Reasoning, Pleasure, Drunk Hook-ups, Bonding Science, Social Stigma, Self Esteem, Doing it Well, College Dating Shifts, Swingers, Jerks, Pleasure Gap Research, Slut Shaming, Women’s Sexual Pleasure, Orientation Influences on Hook Ups and SO MUCH DATA.  

  • Commitment Phobia with Sarah & Gregory plus Jason Porath
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 13, 2014 at 8:10 pm

    SOUL MATES FOR REALSIES! Sandra seeks to understand marriage. Artist Jason Porath and marital unit Sarah and Gregory weigh in. TOPICS: Beyond the Wedding, Relief, Journeys Just Starting, Fear of Choosing Wrong, Future Kids’ Names, Nightwing, Prioritizing the “We,” “Venus and Mars on a Date,” 1st Marriage Mistakes, Cohabitating, Wedding Ritual, Ketubah, Sex Life Changes, Tools, Cultivating Love, Couple’s Therapy, Aligning Brain Waves, Recurring Arguments, Commitment Phobia, Pure “I” Statements, Going to Bed Angry, Triggers, How to Fight, and knowing the difference between who you are and how you be.  

  • Cheating with Dr. Chris Donaghue
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 6, 2014 at 5:57 am

    LIES, LIES AND MORE LIES! Dr. Chris Donaghue sets the record straight on the role of cheating in today’s relationships and what it means for partnerships of tomorrow. But first, Layperson Elaine admits to a guilty past. TOPICS: Dr. Chris answers many questions including “Is cheating avoidable?” “Where’s the line?” and “How can you tell if a relationship is salvageable?”. ALSO: Sandra in DC, Giving in to Temptation, Signs of a Healthy Relationship, Craving Diversity, Statistics, Cyber Sex, Fluid Boundaries, Uncomfortable Feelings, Absolute Chaos, Handling Jealousy & Anxiety, Cultural Changes, “Relationshipping,” Romantic Comedies, Conflict vs Pain, Dopamine Highs, Rage, Lifelong Partnership Building, Novelty, Honoring Your Needs, Villainizing the Cheater, Loss of Attraction, Aging and Libido Mismatches. Wow! Feelings!  

  • The Paladins of Sex with SFSI Volunteers Yvonne, Joel & David
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 26, 2014 at 8:00 am

    COMMON QUESTIONS, MEDICAL EMERGENCIES & THE FIST OF KNOWLEDGE! Sandra hunts down 2 of her teachers and a classmate from the renowned & rigorous San Francisco Sex Information educator training. TOPICS: Prolapse Lady, Mom Boundaries, Accuracy, Googling Sex Info, Science Biases, The Dubious Eyebrow, Anecdotal Evidence, “Positive” Neutral Face, PubMed’ing “Rectal Foreign Bodies,” Boy Scout Webelos, Coursera Classes, Good Reads, Yahoo Answers,  Favorite Sex Ed Moments, Dealing with STDs, Egg Shells and Other Things in Butts. Feel free to email any of your sex questions to ASKUS@SFSI.ORG. Sex Nerds are standing by.

  • Breath Play with Mike Squillacioti & “Leon”
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 20, 2014 at 3:20 am

      COMPLETE STRANGER SHARES HIS MASTURBATION TECHNIQUE. Artist Mike Squillacioti and a mysterious man join Sandra for a new twist on breathing during sex. TOPICS: Linguistic Distancing, The Tantra Episode, NO Erotic Asphyxiation, Swimming, Olympics, Sphincters, Nipple Clamps, Roller Coaster timing, Hypoxia, Masturbation, Porn Expectations, “Going to the Club,” Bicycle Seat Prostate Pressure & a Frozen Steak to the Balls. THEN WE TURN A CORNER: “Do you need a lot of experience to be a good lover?” We discuss. 

  • The Gift of Orgasm with Dr. Sadie Allison & CTO John
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 12, 2014 at 6:55 pm

    MIND-BLOWING SEX & ZOMBIES! Author & Tickle Kitty CEO Dr. Sadie Allison and her partner & CTO John join Sandra for a romp through the land of love, orgasm & relationships. TOPICS: Jack Valentine, Singles Awareness Day, Cockring Story, Sadie’s Journey, Engineering Sex Drawer Locks, Female vs Male Orgasm, How to Orgasm, “Tickle Her Fancy,” Sex Toys, Troubleshooting Pleasure, Vibrators, Masturbation Attitude, John & Sadie’s Love Story, Growing as a Couple, Finding Mr. & Ms. Right, Mind-blowing Sex, Flavored Lube, Butt Stuff and a hearty game of “Would You Rather…?”

  • Perving Out with Dr. Jesse Bering
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 6, 2014 at 8:10 pm

    TWISTED AROUSAL RESEARCH, EROTIC SCHADENFREUDE & MORE! Author of “Perv: The Erotic Deviant in All of Us,” Jesse Bering, PhD expands what is normal & shares new vocab words to amaze your friends! TOPICS: The Young Turks, Objectophilia, Melissophilia, Neanderthal Source Material, Origins of Kink, Erotic Dependency, Fetish vs Paraphilia, Developmental Imprinting, Female Erotic Plasticity, Sandra’s Cartoon Kink, Masochistic Tendencies, 5 Erotic Age Orientations, Virtuous Pedophiles, Innate Psychological Biases, Predicting the Future of Sex, “Squick,” Roman Showers, Wall of Porn, Genetic Fitness, Studying Lust & Disgust and thinking with the right head!

  • Sex Prep: Mindfulness with Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 29, 2014 at 6:52 pm

    NINJA SKILLS FOR SEX! Sandra gets Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to explain a crucial technique for handling yourself in the bedroom… and beyond! TOPICS: The “Down Low,” Getting Touchy-Feely, Self Care, Awareness without Judgement, The Triangle of Thoughts-Emotions-Sensations, Your Patterns, Triggers, Sandra’s Trigger, Using Your Words, Tangible Feelings, A Pattern Interrupt, Run/Numb/Distract, Sandra’s Dark Shadow, Favorite Negative Emotions, Manipulation, Buddhist Science, Third Eye, Astrology “Personal Growth,” Brené Brown, Feeling Worthy, Dr. Who, Our Inner Geography, Resiliency, Jenn’s TEDx Talk and Befriending Your Body.

  • Vegas Porn Adventure with Gram Ponante
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 22, 2014 at 7:15 pm

    DOWN THE RABBIT HOLE… America’s Beloved Porn Journalist Gram Ponante helps Sandra process a wild 24 hours at the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo. TOPICS: Describing AVN, Rock & Roll, Swinger Squirting Seminar, Chocolate Dildo, National Geographic, Light Hearted Sex Party, “Sex Educator Serious,” Squirting, Metaphors, G-Spot Flux Capacitor, Jack the Zipper, Celebrity Chef, Hummer Limo, Justine Joli, Jiz Lee, Ryan Mclane, Pop Rocks Sushi, Stereotypes, Porn Star Prom and the industry turning over a new leaf.

  • Handjob High Five with Reid Mihalko & Matt Kirshen
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 15, 2014 at 6:15 pm

    USE LUBE! Sex & relationship expert Reid Mihalko and comedian Matt Kirshen join Sandra to examine the redheaded stepchild of sexual technique. TOPICS: Key Parties, “Taking the Piss,” British & German Kinks, Sploshing, Dogging, Neil Strauss, Fisting, Porn & Visual Learning, Boob Cop, Solo Practice, Biofeedback, Circus People, Ball Play, Lube Preferences, Finding the Right Speed, Finger-banging, Kissing, Laughter During Sex and Benny Hill in the Bedroom. 

  • Sex on TV with Dr. Logan Levkoff & Monica Moon
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 8, 2014 at 6:09 pm

    REALITY TV, GLEE & WISHFUL THINKING! First, author & sex educator Dr. Logan Levkoff dishes on media literacy. Then, Sandra digs into her fan fic fantasies with Monica Moon. LOGAN TOPICS: Sexual Double Standards, Slutwalk, Judgy Newscasters, Miley Cyrus, Blurred Lines, “OITNB,” “Teen Mom,” “Knocked Up,” Seeing What Goes Unsaid, Roe v Wade, Politics, “Game of Thrones,” Sneaky Cameras, Good Girls vs Bad Girls, Vajayjay, Gay Marriage and the next generation. MONICA TOPICS: Sex Scenes, Embarrassment, The “Masters of Sex” O Face, Benedict Cumberbatch, Sexual Tension, “Doctor Who,” Shoujo Manga, Lois & Superman, “Smallville,” and “True Blood.”

  • Anal New Year with Sara Benincasa
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 2, 2014 at 7:24 pm

    RECTUMS AND RESOLUTIONS! Delightful author & comedian Sara Benincasa opens up about her butt. TOPICS:  Kenny Powers, Special Olympics, Successful Resolution Strategy, Performance Anxiety, Orgasm Alternatives, Relaxing the Vag, Beyonce, Catholicism, Fleshbot Porn Awards, Anal Attitude, The Ol’ College Tries, Wolf of Wallstreet, Girls, Control, Margaret Cho, External Butt Play and Epiphanies! PLUS Sara’s impressive self-confidence Brainhack.

  • Orgies & Animals – PART TWO! Live from Washington, DC!
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 19, 2013 at 12:40 am

    KINKY CHIMPS & PUNISHMENT BUKAKE! Author Dr. Katherine Frank, researcher Dr. Jamie Lawson and improv teacher Sawn Westfall join Sandra for a wild Q&A joinery through group sex and the animal kingdom! TOPICS: Egg Competition, Hyena Lady Penis, The Future of Group Sex, Transgression, Power & Hierarchy, Society & Sex, Dominance, Favorite Sex Books, Beastiality, Tahiti, Cross-Cultural Manly Cum Guzzling, Peacocks, Sexual Dysfunction, Anorgasmia, Pig Orgasms, Condoms, Gloves and Nina Hartley’s Female Pleasure Trick. 

  • Orgies & Animals – Part One! Live from Washington, DC!
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 11, 2013 at 11:57 pm

    ORGIES! PENGUINS! SPERM COMPETITION! Researcher Dr. Jamie Lawson, author Dr. Katherine Frank and improv teacher Sawn Westfall join Sandra for part 1 of a wild ride through group sex and the animal kingdom! TOPICS: Improv, Pickup Artists, Dr. Who, Sexy Symmetry, Gay Penguins,  Bed Bugs, Traumatic Insemination, Bonobo Penis Jousting, Scientific Bias, Interbreeding, Group Sex, Orgies, Tribal Ritual, Sex Party Context, Waiting in Line, Power, Newbies, Sperm Swamping, Religious Rituals, Hopeful Sex and the Significance of Being Watched. STAY TUNED FOR PART 2!

  • Sex & Jesus
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 5, 2013 at 1:57 am

    FORNICATION! HEDONISM! SPILLING THY SEED!!! The marvelous Reverend Beverly Dale sheds light on Jesus, the Bible and how to connect our sexuality with spirituality. TOPICS: Liberation Theology, Defining “Grace,” Jesus’ Social Life, Being Human AND Divine, Pre-Marital Sex, Non-Marital Sex, “Sexual Immorality,” the Marriage Covenant, Pleasure vs Hedonism, Pleasure as Worship, Lust, Adultery Now vs Then, Mortifying the Flesh, Celebrating God’s Creation, Homosexuality, Acknowledging the Human Condition, Judgement vs Compassion and when to check yourself before you wreck yourself! 

  • Terrible Sex Tips – A Thanksgiving Quickie
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 27, 2013 at 6:44 pm

    Sandra knows you don’t have time to go balls deep on a sex podcast this week, so she made you a light snack. TOPICS: Cum in the Eye, Hair in the Throat, Hustler Magazine, Beef & Graphene Condoms, Facebook’s WORST sex tips, 3 GREAT sex tips and a tasty recipe for when family is no longer near.

  • Late Bloomers: Live From Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 21, 2013 at 6:56 am

    VIRGIN TERRITORY! Sandra crowdsources insight to challenging questions about virginity in the age of adulthood. TOPICS: BDSM, Masturbation, Self-Advocacy, Kinsey Reports, Repeated Blooming, Sexual Satori with True Blood, Telling Your Partner, Terrific Accents, Waiting to be Straight, The Loosest Virgin, The Clingy Factor, The Everyhing-BUT-Virgin, Dating, Body Weight, Sex Work, French Kissing a Germaphobe, Trust, Tempur-Pedic Bed Secrets, Love & Lust, Born-Again Virgins, Fluidity, and Nerd Parenting. You can find the twitter handles of those who shared on this episode’s post at Nerdist.com!

  • Love With Emily
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 13, 2013 at 7:13 pm

    Sex expert Dr. Emily Morse joins Sandra for a philosophical jaunt through love and relationships. How DO you find… The One? TOPICS: Emily & Tony Goodies, Down Under Comfort, Dry Balls, Handlers, Reality TV, Embracing “Expert,” Life Balance, Polyamory, Changing in a Relationship, Gender Language, Dating Patter Exercise, Healthy Relationships, Radical Honesty and Cultivating Self Love!

  • Live Sex Nerd Sandra: PHILADELPHIA!
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 6, 2013 at 7:16 pm

    RACE FETISH & INTERETHNIC DATING! Comedian Darryl Charles and sexologist Dr. Timaree Schmit join Sandra on stage to figure out where couples have sex in their homes. Answer: Everywhere. Then sex & dating expert Twanna Hines sets Sandra straight on how to “get down with the Funky Brown.” TOPICS: Awkward Farting, Racial Stereotypes, Cuckolding, Math, Marriage, Cats, Cohabiting, Toilets, Sex Dreams, Breaking Bad, Urethral Sounding and the Pornhub Study. THEN: OKCupid Trends, Flawed Assumptions, Black Women Dating, Selection Bias and More Science!

  • A Fetish for Age Play
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 30, 2013 at 5:15 pm

    CROTCHLESS DIAPERS & SCHOOL GIRLS SKIRTS! Mako Allen, co-host of the Big Little Podcast, lets us into a weird-hot, edgy, taboo world and why, for a pants-wetter, he’s a pretty serious guy. TOPICS: Veruca Salt, Submission Assumptions, Pedophilia, Sissies, Taoism, The Worst Word,  Relationships, The Fetish Underneath, Fetish Double Standard, His Big & Little Family, Not-So-Little Girls, Incest Play, Deep vs Skimming Knowledge, Reductive Dirty Talk, The Book Technique, and a whole lotta Sandra taking a moment. 

  • Sex, Dance & Fitness
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 23, 2013 at 5:17 pm

    BOOTY POPPING SPECIFICS! TWERKING ACCURACIES! Multi-faceted professor and podcast host Dr. Timaree Schmit sets the record straight on sex ed professions, burlesque and so much more! TOPICS: Sexuality Career Paths, Life Sustainability, Cliteracy, Dinosaur Burlesque Costumes, The Sybian, Burlesque & Feminism, Sex Nerd Rebellion, Dance Science, Bedroom Crossovers, Harlem Shake, Zumba, Flirtification,

  • Tantric Sex
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 16, 2013 at 6:04 pm

    ENERGY ORGASMS! Barbara Carrellas is a sex educator, workshop facilitator, sex/life coach, and motivational speaker who delights in blurring the lines between sacred and profane. She is the author of “Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty First Century.” TOPICS: Sexual Expansionist, AIDS Crisis, Time Machine Sex, Drug Fueled Dance Clubs, Tantra as Safe Sex, Narnia, Ecstatic Orgasm, Tantra vs Tantric Sex, The Great Big Good, Catholic Backgrounds, Sexy Breathe, Quickie Tantra Tips, BDSM, Sacred Sex, Conscious Sexuality, Hand & Pinky Exercise, Cultural Appropriation, Ghosts, Fakir, New Possibilities, Staying Present, Fantasy and knowing there’s more if you want it!

  • Erogenous Zones! Live Sex Nerd Sandra Show: NYC
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 10, 2013 at 2:44 am

    NIPPLES, NAPES & NULLO! Comedian Erin Lennox and musician Blain Macintosh help Sandra discuss hot spots! TOPICS: Slutty Pride, Big Nipples, Breast Perimeter Sweeps, Nipple-Clit Trifecta, Moving Targets, Fake Ear Theories, Boob-on-the-Eye, Blindfold & Breast Story, Ticklish Zones, Man Nipples, Nape of Neck, Power Moves, Queefing, Nullo, Smegma, Sounding, Headgasms and Return of the Orgy Dome!

  • Rope Bondage with Midori
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 2, 2013 at 4:06 pm

    Sex & shibari expert Midori explains the many flavors of rope bondage, inspiring Sandra to search for answers beyond the scope of rope. TOPICS: Female Dominance, Sci-Fi Smut, Ancient Tokyo, Mud & Feathers Kickstarter, Shibari vs Rope Bondage vs Cowboy Bondage, Erotic Connection, How to Play Hot, Blindfolds & Anticipation, Problem-Solving Pleasure, Easy Bondage Tips & Dirty Japanese! Then Rachael (“Happy Steak & BJ Day” episode) joins Sandra for a round of vulnerable soul searching. #feelings 

  • Free Sex Advice with Francisco Ramirez
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 25, 2013 at 5:09 pm

    STORIES FROM THE STREETS! Sex educator Francisco Ramirez (United Nations & MTV) shares stories & techniques from years of giving sex & dating advice in the parks of NYC. TOPICS: Healthy Sex, Screwing vs Screwing Over, Doing Stuff To vs With Someone, Common Questions, Your Instincts, How to Give Advice, #SoOverMyEx, Bringing Sex Ed to the Streets, Darkness in the Park, Drag Queen BJ Guru, Homeless Folks, Cops, Douche-Bags, Advice on the Subway, Difficult Questions, Love Stories, Hurricane Sandy and the Economics of Love. 

  • Live Sex Nerd Sandra Show BOSTON!
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 18, 2013 at 8:52 pm

    DRAGON PENIS! Sexologist Megan Andelloux (TheCSPH.org) & comedian Will Smalley join Sandra on the first stop of her tour! TOPICS: Comedy, Hair Removal Techniques, Pubic Faux Hawk, Ball Shaving Tutorial, Threading, Neat Show & Tell, Antiques Road Show, A-to-M, The Worst Milkshake, Butt Plug Basics, Dirty Talk, Honey Bear and Baby Jesus.  

  • Girl Sex 101
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 11, 2013 at 10:31 pm

    HOW TO DRIVE A VULVA! Author and sex educator Allison Moon (Tales of the Pack) reveals valuable wisdom from her new book project, “Girl Sex 101.” Help kickstart it, today! TOPICS: Vaginal Fisting, Zen and the Art of Vulva Maintenance, Power Femmes, The Patriarchy, Flirting, Approaching Women, Pleasuring a Female, Laying Back and Taking it, Consenting Touch, Small Changes That Make Big Differences, Cultural Programming, Dyke Douches, Driving Metaphors, Topping, Hand Techniques, The Vulcan, Squirt Training and Sexual Superheroes! 

  • Fantasy Fail
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 5, 2013 at 12:16 am

    LIVING UP TO THE SEXPECTATION! Sandra processes a strange and wonderful group experience with her BFF Yvette and boyfriend Chris. TOPICS: Poop Feelings, Birthday Surprises, Dressed to Kill, Hot Girls, X-Rated Butt Jiggle, Circulation Issues, Blood Sugar Issues, Erection Issues, ALL THE ISSUES! 

  • Swinging Sexy
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 28, 2013 at 4:39 pm

    NO MORE SHAG CARPETING! Relationship experts Holli & Michael (Hosts of Playboy Radio’s “SWING”) bust through stereotypes and myths about living the lifestyle. TOPICS: Soft vs Hard Swap, “Living Sexy,” Clubbing, Single Guys, Approaching Another Couple, TTLC, Living Your Fantasy, Truth, Women Running the Show, Taking One For the Team, Reciprocity, Resentment, Common Pitfalls, Safe Sex, Nudists, Bisexuality, Hotel Takeovers, the Chocolate Room and where Stephen Hawking brings his posse.

  • Bend Over Boyfriend
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 21, 2013 at 5:04 pm

    PEGGING! Writer & educator Ruby Ryder shares how fun it can be to trade places! Sandra & Larkin soak up booty strap-on secrets galore! TOPICS: “Embracing Your Kink,” Myths & Misconceptions, Reddit, Blowup Dolls, Designing a Workshop, Choosing Equipment, Pegging Porn, Hygiene, Height & Positions, Femininity, Fantasy, Keeping Secrets, Foreplay, Rimming, Packing & Playing, Erections, Stamina and TMIs Galore!

  • Sexy Safer Sex with Kate McCombs
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 14, 2013 at 4:16 pm

    JUST THE 4-PRONGED TIP! Loveable sex educator Kate McCombs shares how hot safe sex can be. Sandra TMIs. Everyone wins. TOPICS: Eroticizing Safety, Dumb Mistakes in Sex Ed, Magic Moments with Condoms, Animal Penis, The Importance of Choice, Sagami Condoms, Female Condoms: Butterfly Nets of Fun and/or Butt Bags, the Glove Trick Revisited, Erotica, San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI), Kissing Class and Sandra’s new favorite slogan, “The knowledge is googleable. Your attitude is everything.”

  • Getting Laid at Burning Man!
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 7, 2013 at 4:42 pm

    TALES FROM THE ORGY DOME! Ranger Sprinkles (Sex Educator Jamye Waxman) and Orgy Dome leader Lazlow spill the dust on sex at Burning Man. TOPICS: “How do you describe Burning Man!?” Hands-on Workshops, Pre-Sex Tips, So Many Naked People, Drugs, Tent Sex, Pickup Lines, Falling in Love, Playa-Proofing Your Relationship, Black Rock City Rangers, Bureau of Erotic Discourse (B.E.D.), Consent, Safety and Shirt-C**king! (Help support the Orgy Dome at AndThenTheresOnlyLove.com)

  • Hot Sex & Pregnancy
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 31, 2013 at 7:40 pm

    EPIC CONCEPTION STORY! Sex educators Jamye Waxman and Mistress Mary share the social, sexual and physical transformations of being first-time Moms in the making. TOPICS: Naked Kitchen Moment, “Geriatric” pregnancy, Friendships, Feeling Sexy, Boobs!, New Orgasms, Pregnancy Brain, Prioritizing Sex, Genital Changes, Sensitivity Intensity, Positions, New Partner Intimacy, Belly Rubs, Fear of Vaginal Changes, How They Knew, Masturbation, Vibrators and Sandra has a series of freak outs.

  • Kink Catastrophes (and Comic-Con bonus recap!)
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 24, 2013 at 6:32 pm

    THE CSI OF SEX! Author, expert and BDSM catastrophe reconstruction specialist Jay Wiseman shares common reasons why scenes go terribly wrong. But first, Sandra learns life lessons at Comic-Con! TOPICS: Bill Nye, Nerd HQ, Thrilling Adventure Hour, Hollywood Healing, Creativity, The Nipple Police, Matt Smith. THEN: Poly Marriage, Owner/slave Marriage, Major Changes in BDSM, Morbid Tragedies Galore, Silver Linings, The 3 Day Rule, 16 Point Negotiation, Setting Yourself up to Live, A Fatal Venn Diagram, Highly Restrictive Bondage, An Ol’ Whorehouse Trick, Gag Mishap, 60 Second Escape Rule, Auto-erotic Asphyxiation, “Failed Sef-Rescue Mechanisms,” Triggering Cardiac Arrest, 5 Second Access Rule, Fatal Fisting, Kinky Crosswords and Changing the World for the Better! 

  • Dave & Sandra Hug it Out
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 17, 2013 at 5:45 pm

    LOVE, TEXTING & CRYING! Sandra and ex-co-host Dave Ross play catchup. TOPICS: Dave’s new podcast “Terrified,” Dave’s Love Debacle, West Wing, Offical Crying Plans, Macklemore, Trampoline Dodgeball, Sandra’s Vague Love Life, The Mixer Board of Love, Dave’s Penis vs Sandra’s Vagina, Hustler, Text Messaging Etiquette & LOL vs hahaha and. Checkout “Terrified” on the Nerdist Industries podcast network!

  • The 100th Episode Bawdy Storytelling Show!
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 10, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    The 100th Episode Bawdy Storytelling Show! SEX GEEK SECRETS! Sandra teams up with Dixie De La Tour’s Bawdy Storytelling for a night of hilarious celebration. Thank you to our storytellers: Ted the Atmospheric Scientist, sex educator Jaiya Ma, porn star & scientist Ned Mayhem, sex educator Reid Mihalko, Comedian Sara Benincasa & your host Sex Nerd Sandra Daugherty, plus Windows to Sky’s renditions of “The Masochism Tango” & “Fuck Her Gently.” Thank you to Nerdist, guests and all you Naughty Monkeys. Go Team Fun!

  • Make Love Not Porn
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 3, 2013 at 3:04 pm

    REAL SEX VS PORN SEX! Visionary, founder & CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn Cindy Gallop gives Sandra plenty to think about. TOPICS: Amateur Sex, Getting Off vs Getting Together, Sexual Egos, Conversation Starters, Best Necklaces, Condom Nerding, Fanny Farts, Sanitized Sex, Lazy Person Sex, Cougar Dating, The Best Moment of Cindy’s Life, Business Sense, Cross Cultural Sex and Reclaiming a National Sexual Identity.  and Why Cindy is a Literal Wet Dream.

  • Puzzle in Your Pants
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 26, 2013 at 5:20 pm

    TRANS SEX 101! Guests JT and Kaydence let Sandra ask inappropriate questions so you don’t have to! TOPICS: Pronouns, Weird Daily Moments, Danger in Transition, Bottom Surgery, Trans Terms, M-to-Femme, Outside the Box, Dating, Continuum Pendulum, Visibility, Hormones, Libido Changes, Passing, Origin Stories, Gender Dyslexia, The Evolving Party in Your Pants, Soft Cock Ejaculation, Nipple Bulbs, Restroom Catch 22, The Trevor Project and ALL THE AWKWARD SEX LIFE QUESTIONS EVERYONE IS AFRAID TO ASK!

  • Sexy Story Sleuth
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 19, 2013 at 6:03 pm

    TOO MANY TO CHOOSE FROM! The tables are turned as Bawdy Storytelling’s Dixie De La Tour drills into Sandra’s past in preparation for the 100th episode. TOPICS: Brand New Vagina, Spelling Bee BDSM, SXSW orgy, On Campus Boning, Virginity, Beginner’s Luck, Pop Rocks & Altoids, Feelings, Geeking Out on the Basics, Ren Faire, Naughty Librarian, Dangerous Zuccini, Mormon Boner, Curiosity, Swinger Awkward and the Best Spanking Paddle EVER!

  • OkCupid Casanova
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 12, 2013 at 6:01 pm

    ONLINE DATING FOR WEIRDOS! (and everyone else) Outlier Jason Porath breaks down his secrets to online dating success. TOPICS: “Rantallion,” Gender Divide, What You Want, Dynamic Profiles, LOL Failings, Personal Branding, Knowing Themselves, Saving Everyone’s Time, Dating Site Choices, Game of Thrones, OkC Science, Finding Your Hook, Breadth & Depth, Getting Specific, Answering Profile Questions, Red Flag Answers, Message Box Dissection, Brevity, Common Mistakes and MAJOR NERD ALERTS!

  • Girl-on-Girl on Girl-on-Girl
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 5, 2013 at 3:42 pm

    LESBIANS ARE PEOPLE, TOO! Comedian dynamo Cameron Esposito shares the mating call of the asymmetrical haircut. TOPICS: Hand Genitals, What Sex Looks Like, Lesbian Sex Myths, Porn, Fingernails, Bi/Gay Comparisons, Turn-on Tips, Humping, Flirting, Awkward Friendships, Society, The Great Scissor Debate, Sexy Parties, Legos, Baby Dykes, Lesbian Bed Death & Emotional Gang Bangs!

  • Sex for a Lifetime
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 29, 2013 at 7:00 am

    NO EXPIRATION DATE! Author of “Naked at Our Age” senior sexpert Joan Price dishes on getting sexy like a fine wine. TOPICS: The Ick Factor, Myths, Menopause, Getting in the Mood, Comedy, Philosophies of Aging, Sex Drive & Fertility, Rediscovering Yourself, Faking Orgasms, Erection Changes, Surprising Safer Sex, Generational Hilarity, “Stuffing,” Betty White & Helen Mirren, Retiring Your Genitals, “Ageless Erotica,” Dating Dilemmas, and Finding the Love of Your Life! Ageless sexuality advocate Joan Price is the author of Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex and Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty, and editor of the new anthology, Ageless Erotica. Visit Joan’s zesty, award-winning blog about sex and aging at http://www.NakedAtOurAge.com, where she continues to talk out loud about Boomer/ senior sex, partnered or solo. Naked at Our Age won Outstanding Self-Help Book 2012 from the American Society of Journalists and Authors and Best Book 2012 from the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.   Do you have your own Amazon affiliate account for book links? If not, here are mine:   Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1580053386/ref=nosim/joanprice-20) Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1580051529/ref=nosim/joanprice-20) Ageless Erotica (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1580054412/ref=nosim/joanprice-20)

  • Touch-Yourself-a-Thon
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 22, 2013 at 5:20 pm

    HAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH! Comedian Mike Black & Sex Ed Legend Carol Queen help celebrate Team Fun when it’s a team of one! TOPICS: Listener Letter, Vibrator Coasting, The Journey, Porn vs Fantasy, Cravings for Intimacy, Trial & Error, Skinemax, Beating it & Breaking it, Lube Lab, Cheating, Group Shame, Getting Caught. THEN: Stamina, Benefits, Guilt, A Vacuum of Info, Self-Comfort, Corn Flakes & Graham Crackers, Non-Orgasmic Masturbation, Nerve Pathways, Patterns & Habits, “Fantasy & Friction,” Valsalva Breathing, Betty Dodson, The Sexiest Library, Sexual Philosophy, and Highlight’s from Carol Queens Remarkable Career! Carol Queen, PhD is a noted pleasure activist, award-winning erotic author, the co-founder (with her life partner Dr. Robert Morgan Lawrence) of the Center for Sex & Culture, and Staff Sexologist at Good Vibrations. For more, see www.carolqueen.com and www.sexandculture.org/mission Photo is courtesy The Feminist Porn Awards.   MIKE BLACK Is a comedian who’s appeared on VH1, TBS, The Travel Channel and Comedy Central and also countless national commercials. When he’s not performing somewhere in Los Angeles or on the road he co-hosts The Action Figure Podcast and Gamedians on Dorksplosion.com Follow his adventures on facebook, twitter & Instagram where he uses the handle mikeblackattack or on his website mikeblackattack.net!   http://mikeblackattack.net/ http://dorksplosion.com/category/podcasts/the-action-figure-podcast/ http://dorksplosion.com/category/podcasts/gamedians/ facebook.com/mikeblackattack twitter.com/mikeblackattack   Hang out with Sex Nerd Sandra on Twitter and Facebook. It will be the fun times.

  • Clown Sex.
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 15, 2013 at 4:52 pm

    ‘NUFF SAID. Joyfully irreverent sex educators Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg share a world where everything tastes just a little bit funny. TOPICS: Mime Safewords, Elephants, Coulrophobia & Killer Clowns, Circus Kinks, Trapeze Artists, Pony Play, Balloon Bondage, Nazi vs Clown, Rubber Chicken Flogger, Pre-Clown: A Love Story, Silly Sex, Age Play, Healing Fear, Stan Lee, Twisted Hotness, Furries, Arousal & Laughter, Open Relationship Boundaries, Playfulness and G-Spot Squirting Stories! Sexuality and BDSM educators, Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg are partners in every sense of the word. They co-teach workshops across the U.S. on BDSM, polyamory, sexual techniques, sex toys, and more.   Ken & Sunny are most known for their approachability, humor and ability to present alternative sexuality topics in a way that is accessible and understandable to the mainstream. Their most recent endeavor features the couple as host and co-host of Outside the Box from X3Sixty.com, a national web-based television network devoted to sex and the adult industry.

  • Kinky Poly Family
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 8, 2013 at 7:16 am

    KINKY COSPLAY, BDSM & POLYAMORY! Long time dominant Orpheus Black and his sub Indigo share their intimate, loving harem household. TOPICS: Fetlife (again!), Cheating, Open Relationships, Fateful Fisting, “Team Predator!” Sports-Fracking, D/s Protocols, Sacred Sex Slaves, “Leave it to Beaver,” Quarterbacking, Manly Mastering, A Foot Thing, Dungeon Danger, Fun Negotiation & Playing Kinky Sherlock! Orpheus Black, BDSM/fetish educator, professional Dom, and D/s counselor, became a household name in the kink community after co-hosting the Severe Society internet radio show on the KSEX network in 2001. While working on the show, he honed his skills in performances at local hotspots including Club Dungeon, Bondage Ball, Bar Sinister, Lair de Sade, Passive Arts Studio, and Miss Kitty’s Parlor. Incorporating a wide array of BDSM/fetish ideals, principles and philosophies, Orpheus created his signature D/s style—a holistic, psycho-sensuous approach to dominance. Say hi on Facebook & checkout Club Hentai!

  • In Hot Pursuit
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 1, 2013 at 5:08 pm

    LEARNING THE VALUE OF THE B*TCHFACE. Sandra investigates a world where everyone wants your number. Comedian Eli Olsberg weighs in. TOPICS: Speed Dating, Yuri’s Night, Mari’s Mob, The Fedex Guy, Bros, Dropping Failed Hints, Stranger Danger, Theories, Porn, Eye Contact, Dance Floor Drama, Nude Modeling, Mistaken for Love, Reverse Juggling, Zooey Deschanel, Super Sexy Approaches, Asking Permission, Masculinity & the Myths of Weakness.   When Mari isn’t on the run from admirers, she enjoys long walks, posing for Dr. Sketchy’s Anti-Art School and working for the circus.    Eli Olsberg is a stand-up comedian, writer, and co-produces a comedy show at a sex shop!   Hangout with Sex Nerd Sandra on Twitter and Facebook. It will be the fun times.

  • Prostate Play: Take it Like a Man!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 24, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    ALL THINGS PROSTATE! Dr. Charlie Glickman gives us a sneak peak into his book, “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure,” co-authored with Aislinn Emirzian with the What, Where, Who, How & Why of the Male G-Spot. TOPICS: Fruit, Age, Bookcases, Fluttering, Sensation, Common Concerns, Health, Toys, Tight Asses, Solo & Couple’s Play, Positions, Sexy Fitness, Tipping Point, Kegel Camp, External Prostate Massage & Attacking from All Angles. Oh, and Charlie hides Sandra’s Prostate.  Charlie Glickman PhD has been a sexuality educator for over twenty years. He teaches workshops on a wide range of topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, sexual orientation, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual practices such as prostate play, anal sex, pegging, sex toys, BDSM, and polyamory. Charlie is certified as a sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists and he regularly presents at conferences and community events, offers trainings on sexuality for medical professionals, therapists, and clergy. Charlie is available for speaking engagements, in-service trainings, and workshops. You can find more information about him on his website. Click the link & checkout “The Utimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners.” 

  • Wicked Sex With Jessica Drake
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 17, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    SEXUAL FANTASIES, ORGASM COACHING & THE MAKING OF A PORN STAR. Adult actress, director & sex educator Jessica Drake teaches Sandra about porn sex. TOPICS: Anal Sex, Special Doggy, Porn Set Foreplay, Cadbury Eggs, Deep Throating Secrets, Creating “Guide to Wicked Sex,” Secrets to Success and the Business Behind the Naughty Business. Oh, and Botox. Jessica Drake is one of adult film’s most celebrated actresses, Wicked Pictures contract star jessica drake is making her mark as a sex educator by combining her passion for teaching sexual responsibility with her goal of helping couples discover their erotic potential. Uniting a lifetime of study with a decade’s worth of experiential research, this charming Texan is sharing her expertise with audiences around the globe in jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex.   Follow @SexNerdSandra on Twitter! And visit Sex Nerd Sandra’s Facebook page for more sexy nerdiness!

  • Sex Down Under
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 10, 2013 at 5:47 pm

    HARDCORE KOALAS, AUSTRALIAN STDs & VULVA CUPCAKES! Sex educator & community organizer Kate McCombs shares wisdom from the land down under. But first, a little life update with friend, Jason Porath. TOPICS: Happiness, SFSI Training, Sex Geekdom, Scrota, Socialized Medicine, Brothels, Amsterdam, Cross-Cultural Comparisons, Condom Fatigue, Gorilla Mating, “Dirty Tail,” Japanese Masturbation Bar, Vulva Puppet Travel, Foreskins & Circumcision and Nerd vs Geek! Kate McCombs is a sex educator, blogger, and speaker, specializing in sex-positive and pleasure-inclusive approaches to sexual health promotion. She’s originally from California, but moved to Australia to get her Masters in Public Health at the University of Melbourne, which she completed in 2011. In addition to facilitating workshops, Kate works as a teaching/research assistant and guest lecturer for the School of Population Health at the University of Melbourne. She’s also the founder of sexgeekdom.com, a website designed to bridge the gap between online and real-life community for sex educators, researchers, and others who might identify as sex geeks. Jason Porath is a creative guy, lending his talents to the world of filmmaking, animation and comics. Do yourself a favor and click on his name to check out his blog.

  • Awkward Moments
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 3, 2013 at 12:55 pm

    THREESOMES, CONSPIRACY THEORY & FONDLING! Sandra searches for social certainty with comedian Guy Branum & Monica Moon. TOPICS: Bedroom Communication, Social Science, Lawyer People, Spectrum People, Defining the Awkward, Beyonce vs Jay-Z, Rules of Engagement, the Ear Trick, Non-Fiction Science, Girls vs Boys (vs People), Ambiguity, Friendship Safe Word, Making Stronger Choices, Eating the Cookie, Remembering Names, Celebrity Coaching, Threesome Fail & the Sexiest Glove Trick. Guy Branum is a writer and comedian best known for serving as “Staff Homosexual” on Chelsea Lately and his performance as Natalie Portman’s sassy gay friend in No Strings Attached. Noticing a trend? He’s appeared on E!, MTV, G4, CurrentTV and lots of other channels you’d need to upgrade your cable to watch. He’s also a writer for the new season of Punk’d on MTV andFashion Police on E!. That means he’s watched the Grammys at Joan Rivers’s house. Jealous? Guy also writes for the “Gay Voices” section of The Huffington Post and occasionally makes web vidoes where he dances around without his shirt on. But mostly, Guy is very, very beautiful and good at having sex. Follow his twitter handle @GuyBranum. Follow the hilarious but awkward (and hilariously awkward) Monica Moon!   Follow @SexNerdSandra on Twitter! And visit Sex Nerd Sandra’s website for more sexy nerdiness!

  • James Deen & Satin Sheets
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 27, 2013 at 5:52 pm

    James Deen & Satin Sheets PORN, CUDDLING & THE RETURN OF THE TIP! Sandra giggles with James Deen over cat pictures after bedtime with Jason Porath. TOPICS: Indian Dance Clubs, Sexy D20s, Masturbation, the Morning After Pill, IUD Removal, Whimsical Dildo Packaging, Robots, Justin Bieber, Deen’s Past & Future, TMZ, Cake vs Pie, the Most Expensive Burrito, the Biz of Porn DVDs, Mission Statement, Sexual Orientation and Hand-on-Hand Relationship Improv! Though peers warned James Deen his skinny body type and boyish looks went against the porn norm, it actually helped him carve out a niche within the industry. Over 3,000 scenes later and Deen is now considered the top male porn star. He is the youngest ever to earn Male Performer of the Year honors at the AVN, XBIZ and XRCO awards shows. Whether filming hardcore BDSM or straight gonzo and feature adult films, Deen is always the most captivating male on screen, and his honest passion for all kinds of sex, both on and off camera, is displayed in the array of movies to his credit. The interview was recorded on-set while filming AMKingdom’s sci-fi film, “Saving Humanity.”  Jason Porath is a creative guy, lending his talents to the world of filmmaking, animation and comics. Do yourself a favor and click on his name to check out his blog. 

  • Sexual Healing
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 20, 2013 at 4:16 pm

    Therapist Kate Loree shares healing tools for sexual abuse survivors. Everyone gets major life skill points for listening to this episode. TOPICS: Steubenville, Rape Culture, Butthole Equality, Therapists, Startling Stats, Crisis, High School Gang Rape, Sandra’s Fight or Flight Moment, Body Tracking, Finding Your Voice, Flooding, Multiple Personalities, Sex Vacation, Partners & Family of Survivors, Triggers, a Coaching Hug, Therapy Techniques and The Scary Canoe Story.  Kate Loree is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing out of Encino, CA. She has an eclectic therapy approach that emphasizes insight, emotional healing, and empowerment to help individuals and couples reach their highest potential and have more gratifying lives.Through an alliance of trust and collaboration, she works with clients to untangle confusing thoughts, feelings, and behavioral patterns to rediscover the capacity to make meaningful choices that are right for the client and their relationship. She is connected to modern practices and therapies; and well informed of latest trends in the mental health field. She works with her clients to set clear expectations and goals for their therapeutic process. For more information about the 2 types of therapy Kate mentioned, checkout the Trauma Resource Institute and EMDRIA websites. 

  • Happy Steak & BJ Day!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 13, 2013 at 5:00 pm

    ‘TIS THE SEASON! Sandra brings together gal pals Yvette & Rachael for girl talking the realities of the beej. TOPICS: Tongue genetics, BJ Class Takeaways, Important Feedback, Being in the Zone, Band Geeks, Paying it Forward, Penis Owner Tips, Reciprocity, The Glance, Swallowing, An Oral Revelation, the Beauty of Pleasure, Man Sounds, 69, Immediate Disqualifications, Penis Size, and the best phrase ever, “DANCE OFF PANTS OFF!” 

  • Dave & Sandra Breakup
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 6, 2013 at 8:00 am

    FEELINGS, FEELINGS & MORE FEELINGS! Sandra & Dave hug goodbye after a long talk about the ups & downs of their on-air relationship. TOPICS: New York Decompression, The Call of the Heart, Gratitude, Hooking Up, Divorce, Reasons for the Breakup, Processing Feelings, Communication Challenges, Abandonment, Solidifying Friendship, Dave’s Closing Remarks on Polyamory & Sex Positivity and Everyone Finds Out The Other Person Cares. 

  • Dorm Room Deeds
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 27, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    A VASSAR COLLEGE EXCLUSIVE! Recording live from their annual NonCon, Sandra & Dave invite Giggles’ employees Angela & Jennifer to talk local sex store wisdom & learn what college students are up to in between classes! TOPICS: Epic Glory Holes, Regional Dong Lingo, Local Sex Store Behaviors, Kinky Snowmen, Utilitarian Anti-Masturbation Signs, The Sex Stairway at Orgy High, Simba, Marriah Carey, Prank Calls, Bunk Bed Safety, The Sex Tree, Senior Fun Run, Banister Sliding Science, Hot Animated Characters, Chastity & Cuckolding.  

  • Sex at the Movies – “The Sessions”
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 20, 2013 at 9:22 am

    SEX SURROGACY, DISABILITY & JUICY BEHIND-THE-SCENES DETAILS! “The Sessions” writer/director/powerhouse Ben Lewin & sex surrogate Cheryl Cohen Greene talk live on-stage with Sandra on the making of the movie, with a special after-interview with Cheryl on the ins & outs of her hands-on work. TOPICS: Funding the film, Being “Differently Abled,” Cheryl’s relationships, How to Find a Sex Surrogate, Lots of Film Making Talk, John Hawkes, Helen Hunt, Sandra’s William H Macy Crush & the Difference Between a Sex Surrogate & “a Hooker.”  Cheryl Cohen Greene is a Certified Sexologist, with a doctorate in Human Sexuality, a 20 year member of the San Francisco Sex Information Training Staff, and have been a surrogate partner for over 30 years. I have helped hundreds of men, women and couples overcome the most common obstacles to good sex and deep intimacy. As a surrogate partner I take a hands-on approach to addressing anxiety, body-image issues, sexual dysfunction, communication difficulties, and other common problems that hinder intimacy. I am also an expert on alternative sexual lifestyles and safer sex. I have appeared on Larry King Live and other major media and have spoken at events, conferences, and colleges across the country. Ben Lewin’s career as a writer and director is spread across three continents and includes award-winning documentaries, feature films, TV movies, mini-series and episodic programs. Born in Poland in 1946, he migrated to Australia with his family in 1949. As a young man, Lewin showed great passion for photography and creative writing, and also studied and practiced law. His breakthrough project as a writer/director was The Case of Cruelty to Prawns, a comedy-drama that won the Best Television Film Award at the prestigious Melbourne Film Festival. Ben Lewin is best known in the US as the writer and director of comedy features; Paperback Romance, a love story about slightly damaged people starring Anthony LaPaglia and Gia Carrides, and the messianic farce The Favor, the Watch and the Very Big Fish, starring Bob Hoskins, Jeff Goldblum and Natasha Richardson. 

  • Looking for Love
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 13, 2013 at 5:53 pm

    SINGLES MIXERS, ONLINE DATING & FIRE PLAY! Nerdist’s Monica Moon & game developer Ivan Van Norman Join Sandra & Dave on stage live at Nerdmelt for a round of “Wow, it’s weird to be single!” TOPICS: Sex Nerd Speed Dating, National Geographic Mating Dance, So Much Awkwardness, Wingmen, Brain Aneurisms, Buddy System, Fake Occupations, Stupid Questions, Psychological Damage, “King of the Nerds,” Online Dating Profile Tips Galore, Messaging No-No’s, Pickup Tips for Nice People, Smooching, Cum Jokes, Marry-F*ck-Kill, A SURPRISE GUEST and IVAN LIGHTS SANDRA ON FIRE!  Follow @DaveToTheRoss and @SexNerdSandra on Twitter! And visit Sex Nerd Sandra’s website for more sexy nerdiness!

  • Big Sexy Grey Area
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 6, 2013 at 6:26 pm

    FIRST KISS PROTOCOL, POLYAMORY & CONDOM TECHNOLOGY! Sex-positive cartoonist Danielle Corsetto shares tips on writing, dating and kissing. TOPICS: Character Development, Pony/ Puppy/ Bunny BDSM, Cheating, Honesty, Jealousy, GIF silliness, Listener Ideas, Kissing Tips and Initiating First Contact. Danielle Corsetto is the cartoonist behind Girls With Slingshots, a slice-of-life webcomic about two girls, a bar, and a talking cactus… and vibrators, and lesbians, and unusual sexual identities, and cats and love and a little BDSM. You can read her strip (and vibrator reviews!) at www.girlswithslingshots.com every weekeday. If you enjoy a little TMI from strangers, her Twitter handle is @dcorsetto and she is an active supporter of #TMITuesday tweets. Danielle lives in Shepherdstown, WV with her two cats and a 12-year-old goldfish. Follow @DaveToTheRoss and @SexNerdSandra on Twitter! And visit Sex Nerd Sandra’s website for more sexy nerdiness!

  • Exiting the Friend Zone
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 30, 2013 at 7:26 pm

    EPIC NERDY LOVE STORY! Dating advice podcaster Harris O’Malley a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove & wife Catherine Burke O’Malley (LEOG podcast) shares how he married out of the friend zone! TOPICS: Green Lantern Rings, Ancient Online Dating, Attraction in Friendship, Nice Girls & Boys, “Death Camp for Penis,” Harris’s Pickup Artist Phase, Seduction vs Coercion, the Hot Best Friend, Gay Parallel, Neato Time Dilation Effect, First Kiss, Friend Zone Philosophizing, the “Nice Guys of OKC” tumblr, Nice vs Good, Pedestals, Fish Tacos and the awkward turtle emoticon!   Harris O’Malley is an Austin based blogger and dating coach who runs run the geek love advice blog Paging Dr. NerdLove where he teaches geeks and nerds how to get better at dating without having to give up that special quality that makes them geeks. His articles have been featuredonKotaku, ThinkProgress, Comics Worth Reading, Boing Bong and even the Harvard Business Journal (?!?).  He’s also participated in Lifehacker’s “Ask An Expert” series, answering people’s dating conundrums. He’s also a regular contributor to Spill.com as a member of the “League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen” podcast. You can follow him on Facebook and Twitter as DrNerdLove. Catherine Burke O’Malley holds an MA in medieval history from Syracuse University and is a regular contributor to Spill.com on the “League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen” podcast, and an occasional guest reviewer on the “Remote Viewing” podcast. Her experience with romantic, sexual, and friend-zone matters is strictly practical, personal, and completely ordinary. She married former denizen of her own Friend Zone, Harris O’Malley, in May, 2012. You can find her on Facebook as “Cat from the LEOG,” and on Twitter @cathburke

  • Healthy Kink
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 23, 2013 at 4:49 pm

    BDSM, SWINGING & POWER PLAY! Psych grad student & researcher Ryan Witherspoon stimulates our ears with kinky knowledge! TOPICS: Swingers vs Polyamory, Psychological Research, Healthy Kink, Pain vs Sensation, Stress-Reduction, Power Play, Service Tops, BDSM vs Abuse, Control, Trust & Pride, Surprising Research, Male Submissives, Pre-Play Negotiations, Boosting Self-Esteem, Open Conversation, Fidelity, Abundance vs Scarcity and Mindful Jealousy! Ryan Witherspoon has published peer-reviewed research and regularly presents at academic conferences nationwide on the topics of sexual minorities and alternative lifestyles, as well as school bullying and mindfulness-based practices.  Ryan will receive his Master’s degree in psychology from Pepperdine University in April, enroute to earning his Ph.D.  Additionally Ryan is a state-certified sexual assault advocate and co-founder of Psychotherapists for Sexual Diversity (PSD), a Los Angeles-based professional organization for clinicians and graduate students interested in sexual diversity issues.  For more information about PSD or Ryan’s research work, please email him at RyanWitherspoon@gmail.com.

  • Sex, Tech & Tequila
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 16, 2013 at 6:51 pm

    MIND-READING HEADBANDS, VIBRATING MICE & REAL DOLLS! Guest co-host, comedy writer & illustrator Jenny Fine joins Sandra in an accidentally alcoholic CES roundup! TOPICS: Dicks in our Faces,Calling All Fan Art, IUD Update, Cell Phone Vibrators, Nerd Boy Worship, Mad Men, 3D Sex Toy Printers, Mattress Gossip, Sex & Advertising, Speculums, the Hands-Free Mauz & more tangents than you can shake a dongle at!  Jenny Fine (@jfineoriginal) is an LA based illustrator, storyboard artist and comedy writer. Her artwork can be seen in Adult Swim shows “NTSF:SD:SUV::” and “Newsreaders”; in Dan Harmon’s (creator of NBC’s “Community”) podcast website and merchandise; all over the Nerdist website; in event posters at the Nerdist Showroom inside Meltdown Comics; and much more. She also co-created, wrote, was production designer, and starred in the Nerdist YouTube Channel web series “NerdTerns”. Originally from the midwest, Jenny made her first foray into the LA comedy scene with a starring role in the viral youtube video (4 million views and counting) “Madeon Pop Culture (Dance Video)”. In her free time, she likes to contribute to her autobiographical webcomic, “Vignettes”, and go salsa dancing. Follow @DaveToTheRoss and @SexNerdSandra on Twitter! And visit Sex Nerd Sandra’s website for more sexy nerdiness!

  • Blow Each Other Away!
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 9, 2013 at 7:45 pm

    MOUTH ORGASMS, FACIAL FACIALS & 90 DAYS OF ORAL SEX! Sex educator and author of “Blow Each Other Away,” Jaiya Ma returns with partner D.Love to talk about their oral sex adventures. Sandra & Dave are hungry to learn! TOPICS: Hesitations, Sex Labs, Genital Slapping, Bedroom Biomechanics, Postions, P-spotting, Sexual Trajectories, D.Love’s Cunnilingus Delight, Motorboating, Hummers, Solo Oral, the White Tigress Practice, Acrobatic Oral, Pheremones, Pineapples & Genital Flavors, Oral Exercise, Damn Dental Dams & a Neato Skin Tightening Trick! Jaiya is an award-winning sexologist, author of Red Hot Touch, and the founder of New World Sex Education.  She’s been featured on shows such as Good Morning America, The Doctors, Nightline, Anderson Cooper and Playboy TV. Through her dynamic teachings she’s helping women and men unleash their full erotic potential. Jaiya also hosts a weekly multi-media show that can be seen online at:  SexwithJaiya.com http://Bloweachotheraway.com/Sandra Follow @DaveToTheRoss and @SexNerdSandra on Twitter! And visit Sex Nerd Sandra’s website for more sexy nerdiness!

  • Sexy Resolutions and Reveries
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 2, 2013 at 6:58 pm

    LISTENER SEX FAILS & THE GREAT CAR SOLO SEX DEBATE OF 2013! Sandra & Dave get nostalgic for 2012 and reveal their sexy resolutions for the year to come learning they want very different things. ALSO: Sandra’s hookup parable, return of the tip, sex nerd census, favorite memories of the show, listener demands, morning hotness, mortifying sex toy letter, car talk, pink panty droppers, cute catcalls & a PSA on Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder.

  • Radical Flirting
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 19, 2012 at 8:00 am

    ANXIETY BONERS, INNUENDOS & SEXY SAFE SEX! Sex & relationship expert Reid Mihalko calls in to break down flirting do’s and don’ts. It’s our first phone interview!!! TOPICS: Lots of Thank You’s, Sex Nerd Secret Stash, What is Flirting?, Opt-Out Opportunities, How Reid Gets “Hella Laid,” Flirting Tips, Roleplaying, Getting Titillated, Games, Sandra Gets Shy, Negging, Safe Sex in the Bedroom plus Dave’s new name is Huggy Bear!

  • Long Distance Loving
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 12, 2012 at 9:40 am

    PHONE SEX, USED PANTIES & OTHER NAUGHTY IDEAS! Adrien & Jeremy Gonzalez join Sandra & Dave for a long distance love story and why it worked out. TOPICS: Romantic Montage, Dolphins, Worries & Fears, Keeping up the Sexy, Simultaneous Movies, Phone Companionship, Romantic Pizza, Fantastic Toy Ideas, Having Crushes, Honesty, Car Metaphors, Figuring Out Who You Are & Making Great Choices!  

  • Sex Toys and Tangents
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 5, 2012 at 6:15 pm

    RULE 34, GLASS TOYS & NAKED DANCE PARTY! Sandra & Dave get a surprise chance to be alone. TOPICS: Ridiculous Custom Vibrators, Mr. Bucket, Back Massagers, iPhone Humping, Toy Purchase Considerations, Body Unsafe Pthalates, Fancy Toys, Glass vs Pyrex Dildos, Team Fun Merch, Magic Wands, URL Pranks, Birthday Spankings, Sexual Larping and Butt Massages for the Holidays!

  • Crazy Love
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 28, 2012 at 9:36 am

    LOVE IS LIKE COCAINE and other fun facts! HuffPost’s science correspondent Cara Santa Maria joins Sandra & Dave to discuss equations of the heart. TOPICS: Love Chemicals, Research, Feelings of Lust, Longevity & Bonding, Sandra’s Attachment Extraction, Hook Up Dilemmas, Companionship, Keeping the Fire, Intimacy & Touch, Addiction, Fiscal Responsibility, Heart Pains, Attraction in Friendship, Strength in Single-hood and Cara & Dave make bets on Sandra’s love life. Not fair, guys!!!

  • Eat Pie, Get Stuffed
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 21, 2012 at 6:41 pm

    PUSSY CAT LICKS PIE! Sandra & Dave literally eat pie and enjoy their week off from podcasting by podcasting. TOPICS: Conan the Barbarian Man Flesh, Grocery Store Drugs, “9 1/2 Weeks” Famous Food Scene & the Sticky Factor, Foreplay, Flowers & Romance, DATES: Muffin vs Lunch vs Dinner vs Drinks, Snack Time Glory Hole, Sexy vs Unsexy Foods, Train Metaphors, and Penetration Vegetation! (Tweet @sexnerdsandra your sexy food ideas!)  

  • Hands-on Arousal
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 14, 2012 at 8:00 am

    SANDRA GETS TOUCHED A LOT & DAVE ASKS QUESTIONS! Sexological body worker Lara Catone talks pleasure & arousal, including her session with Sandra. TOPICS: Sex Labbing, Witnessing, Genital Mapping, Blood Flow Slapping, Pleasure Capping, Wild Animal Sex, Vaginal Geography, Spinal Movements, and the Cabbage Patch.

  • Red Hot Touch
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 7, 2012 at 8:00 am

    DAVE GETS TOUCHED A LOT & SANDRA WATCHES! Somatic sexologist, author and sex genius Jaiya Ma blows Sandra’s mind with SO MUCH hands-on knowledge! TOPICS: Sex Lab Hypothesis, Fingering Techniques, The G, U & AFE Spots, Layers of Erotic Touch, Sexy Bones, Sacrum Cupping, Sexual Shame Story, Softening & Melting Your Touch, Different Genital Types and the Levels of Erotic Consciousness.

  • Sex Nerd Nina Hartley!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 31, 2012 at 7:57 am

    SWINGERS, DIRTY TALK & ORGASMIC EGO BOOSTS! Sex icon Nina Hartley nerds out on juicy tidbits. TOPICS: Erotic Brain Structure, Kinky Venn Diagram, Yang Energy, Sex Environments, Fantasy Privacy, Giving & Receiving, Rachel Maddow and How to be a Good Master & Lover!

  • Sexual Empowerment
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 24, 2012 at 6:07 pm

    NERD MATING DANCE & EXERCISES FOR BETTER SEX! Amy Jo Goddard spills the dirt on becoming a sexually empowered earthling. BUT FIRST, Mo Fathelbab & Ben Dunn of the web series “NerdTerns” joins the table. TOPICS: Sandra Thanks Her Wish List Supporters, 5 Languages of Love, NerdTerns Origin Story, Sexual Frustration, Hitting on Women. THEN: Money & Sex, Body Love, Naked Dance Party, Core Powers, Sexual Role Models, Sexual Menu Game, the Question Never to Ask and a Title Contest!

  • Sex Nerds Unite!
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 17, 2012 at 8:09 am

     ANAL G-SPOTTING, SEX SOUNDS & SEX GEEK RETREATS! Sandra reveals her secret motives behind her new show. Dave & Sandra talk Sumo Wrestling, Dildos, Making Out with Smokers, Sandra’s Sex Lab, Sex Nerd Shame, Car Jerk Off Techniques and Presidential Cigars. THEN, Dee Dennis shares how she went from lonely spouse to sex blogger to sex conference mogul, uniting sex-positives in beautiful nerdery.

  • Roleplay Pervertibles
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 10, 2012 at 8:01 am

    SPANKING POWDER, SEA MONKEYS & ROLEPLAY PARTY GAMES! Emily Prior & Tim Woodman join Sandra & Dave to discuss the beautiful freshness of what roleplay can bring to a relationship. TOPICS: Sexual Minorities, Fetishism, In n Out Burger,  Teenage Makeouts, Improv Applications, School Yard Rules, Super Mario, “Let’s Pretend,” Power Dynamics, Watermelons, Partner Worship and a game you just MUST play with your friends!

  • Policing Porn
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 3, 2012 at 8:53 am

    OBSCENITY LAWS, GUILTY FEELINGS & THE JUDGY HAND OF JUSTICE. First Amendment, Intellectual Property, and Entertainment attorney Allan B. Gelbard schools Sandra on the ways of the law. TOPICS: Lustful Thoughts, Court Conundrums, Porn Industry Insights, Condoms on-Camera, STI Testing, Political Pitfalls, Sneaky Law Language, Religion, Consent, Our Freedom of Expression, Lewd Conduct Clarity and what $11 BILLION DOLLARS has to say about ALL OF US.

  • Sex and Politics: An Awkward Democracy
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 26, 2012 at 5:36 pm

    STRIP CLUB TAXES, FEAR & INNOCENCE! Sandra & Dave answer emails on under & overactive erections. THEN Dr. Marty Klein MFT sheds light on the intersection of Sex and Emotion in the Political Sphere. TOPICS: Sandra’s new Meltdown show, Boners, How to Undermine Democracy, Why Folks Stay Quiet, Sexual Expression & the 1st Amendment, Understanding Fear, “Uterus” & Other Dirty Words, Discipline vs Compassion, Oprah, NPR, Penis Straws and What Bachelorette Parties & Celebrities Have in Common!

  • Sex Rules! With Maria Falzone
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 19, 2012 at 6:32 pm

    SEXUAL SENSES, FUTURE BREEDERS & MAGIC SPERM! Sandra & Dave answer an email on an angled dangle and discuss brand spankin’ new sex conference Catalyst Con! THEN hilarious powerhouse & comedian Maria Falzone shares stories of sex education, vulvas and showerheads. Checkout Maria’s fantastic show at SexRules.com. ***Apologies for the audio quality this week, Sex Nerds!

  • No Babies Allowed
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 12, 2012 at 5:03 pm

    CONTRACEPTION, SPERMICIDE & ENDLESS THEORETICAL WEIGHT GAIN! Oh man! Nurse Practitioner Patty Cason returns to handle the mysteries of keeping the uterus baby-free. But first, Dave harasses Sandra with his sperm. TOPICS: Hand Knit Anatomy, Dave & Sandra Awkwardly Roleplay, Safer Sex vs Contraception, the Pill/Patch/Ring Trifecta, Hormones ‘n’ Stuff, IUCs, Monkeys, Emergency Plans, Implants, Injections, Male Options and Dirty Double Dutching!

  • HPV, STIs & TMIs
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 5, 2012 at 7:00 am

    FACE HERPES, TESTY TESTERS & the CANCER VACCINE! Part 1 of 2 Episodes on STD & Contraceptive Basics, veteran Nurse Practitioner Patty Cason lays down the STI knowledge, focusing on HPV, Herpes, Chlamydia, Syphilis & the new Gonorrhea Superbug. ALSO: Health Benefits of Sex, Intimate Partner Violence, STD vs STI, vaccines, testing, Prophylactic Doilies, Dental Dams, Hep C, Herpes 1 & 2 the Worst PSA EVER!

  • Gay Potluck
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 29, 2012 at 7:25 am

    BATH HOUSES, GAY SEX CULTURE & ORDERING A NICE MAN ON THE INTERNET! Comedian Guy Branum and artist Michael Squillacioti spill the lube on the fascinating world of man-on-man hookup culture. TOPICS: Fun with Grindr, Casual Jerk offs, Online Sex, Gay Bar Back Rooms, the Orientation Iceberg, Male Bisexuality & the Double Standard, the Hard Road Out of the Closet, Pretty Gay Boys, Bears & Hyper-Masculinity, Tips for Newbies, Sexellent Negotiation and One Heck of an Eye Gaze! Sandra is very jealous of all of this.

  • The Penis Power Hour
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 22, 2012 at 7:00 am

    MYTHS & FACTS on ERECTION STRENGTH, SIZE & STAMINA! Urologist Dr. Dudley Danoff uses his 40 years of experience to help Sandra & Dave understand the Hard & Soft of the situation! TOPICS: Male Anatomy Epiphanies, Wet Dreams, Blue Balls, those Awkward Exams, Urology Jokes, the Truth About Size Surgeries, Pills & Pumps, Morning Wood, Exercises for Endurance and the Future of Male Birth Control! Checkout Dr. Dudley’s book at penispowerbook.com!

  • Sexual Shame and Healing
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 15, 2012 at 8:45 am

    HANGOVER SEX, METACOGNITION and MASCULINITY! Sandra & Dave stopover in San Francisco to chat it up with sex educator & blogger Charlie Glickman! TOPICS: Sexual Shame’s Many Emotions, Good Shame, Attunement, Post-Coital Guilt, Recognizing & Healing Triggers, Anal Play, Gender Boxing, Inconvenient Penile Functioning and Dave Wages a War on the Man Box! ALSO: How AROUSAL effects our mental abilities. Neat!

  • More Than the Tip with Chris Hardwick!
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 8, 2012 at 7:29 am

    BLOWUP DOLLS, VIRGINITY and PANTY RIPPING! Nerd king Chris Hardwick & Sandra’s BFF Yvette Baker join Sandra & Dave on stage for a 1 year anniversary full of laughter and stories. TOPICS: Love confessions, Marc Maron’s Jedi Trick, Puttin’ Your Cookies on the Table, Sex Nerd Sandra Origin Story, Catholic Shame, Virginity, Doctor Who Role Play, Tardis Dildo Sounds, Clit-Blocking, Nerd Dating, Junk Grabbing, Dancing Tips, Hardwick Choreography, Sexual Tension & many, many Thank You’s for a wonderful year.

  • Japan: Nippon Nookie
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 1, 2012 at 5:36 pm

    RED LIGHT DISTRICT, LOVE HOTELS and PENIS SNUGGIES! Sandra shares her recent adventure delving into Japanese sex & relationship culture. Dave proves the strength of their latex. TOPICS: Sneaking into a Brothel (aka Soapland), Used Panty Vending Machines, Karaoke, Host Culture, Doorknob Porn, Masturbation, BJ Machine Fail, School Girl Outfits, Arranged Marriage & all the Fun Sex Toys Sandra Brought Back!

  • Sex Q&A: Vag, Dating & Trolls
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 25, 2012 at 7:19 am

    GENITAL INTERFACING, BATTLESTAR GALLACTICA ROLEPLAY & HUGS! Sandra and Dave take questions from listeners. It’s super fun time! Topics include: bikini waxes, eye-watering vaginal scent, erotic fan fiction, Dave’s feelings, Sandra’s feelings, and the letter to represent so many letters (i.e. Nice Sex Nerd looking for love online and has never been on a date). Sandra shares secret mantra and facial tip. Life is good.

  • Your Sexual Archetype
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 18, 2012 at 5:02 pm

    JESSICA RABBIT, WOLVERINE and THE INNER CAST OF CHARACTERS! Also, GO AHEAD, OBJECTIFY YOUR PARTNER ALREADY! Dave and Sandra get excited about their sexual spirit animals. THEN Jungian psychotherapist Chelsea Wakefield blows Sandra’s mind with her Jedi level sex wisdom. Finally, Dave returns and Sandra crowd sources the sexy. TOPICS: Edgy Sex, Explaining Sexual Energy, the Venn Diagram of Every Relationship, Pitfalls of the Enlightened Male, Roles That Kill Our Sex Lives, Gatekeepers, Upping Thy Sexy Quotient, plus SEXUAL SELFISHNESS and OUR INSTINCTUAL SELVES! 

  • Does Size Matter?
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 11, 2012 at 7:00 am

    PILLS, PUMPS and PUNS! Comedian Laura Kightlinger and therapist Dr. Hernando Chaves help us size up the situation live at NerdMelt! Topics include: Sext tips, When it’s too big, Dildo picking mishaps, Porn, Dave’s apartment, Kama Sutra Wisdom, Poisonous snakes, Self Subjectivity, Averages, Foreskin, Hygiene, Breast size and a whole lot of giggling!

  • IUDs of Independence
    by Sandra Daugherty on July 4, 2012 at 9:51 am

     HELLO KITTY BONDAGE, BIRTH CONTROL and FREEDOM!!! Sandra and Dave discuss sexy Japan, questionable souvenirs, past eps and feelings. THEN Nurse practitioner Rae Jean Blaschka of Kodiak, Alaska reassures Sandra and her fussy cervix that IUDs are super great! How IUDs are inserted, how they work, misconceptions and why she loves them are discussed. 

  • The Pelvic Guru(s)
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 27, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    BACKDOORS, FRONT DOORS and WHAT’S UP YOUR WAZOO!? Sandra chats with Megan Angelloux briefly on how sexuality is taught in medical school. THEN she gets fabulously detailed with Tracy Sher, a pelvic floor physical therapist, on the wonders of genital anatomy. Topics include: ER X-rays, Misdiagnosis, Internal Mapping, THE BULBO! Under vs Overactive Muscles, Butt Clenching, Poor PC Exercising Habits, Man Body Issues, Cyclists and How to Use Your Inner Elevator!

  • The Invisible Bisexual
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 20, 2012 at 5:52 pm

    PANSEXUALS, OMNISEXUALS and OPPORTUNISTS! Dave and Sandra talk orientation. Sandra talks with Regina Reinhardt, Ph.D of The American Institute of Bisexuality about what it means to like everybody. Topics include: The importance of bisexual research, swinger communities, bi males, bullying, the Kinsey scale, tough relationship choices, and fun terms like bi-attracted, bi-curious, poly pan, and more!

  • Dating and… Chivalry!?
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 13, 2012 at 7:10 am

    MUFFIN DATES, TACO DATES and OFFICIAL DATES! Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just really confusing. Join Sandra, Dave with Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, plus dating extraordinaire Madison Shepard for a hilarious look at the mating dance including: Prep, During and Follow Up Procedures, Common Courtship Qualms (who pays?), Dating for Sex vs Love, Bookmarking, and why FUN should be the ultimate objective!

  • The Birds ‘n’ Bees: Kids
    by Sandra Daugherty on June 6, 2012 at 6:59 am

    AMERICAN PIE, RAPE FREEZE TAG and OGLING GOOGLE! How do we talk to our kids about sex? Do we let the internet do it for us? No! Sex educators Brynne and Melissa return with more adorb teen Q’s, then sexologist Lanae St.John (@TheMamaSutra) shares how to start the convo and teach the early building blocks for a lifetime of healthy sexuality

  • The Birds ‘n’ Bees: Teens
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 30, 2012 at 7:00 am

    SNOWFLAKES! CROTCH POINTING! TEACHABLE MOMENTS! School sex educators Brynne Zaniboni & Melissa Soltman share their adventures in talking to adolescents about sex! Topics include: The Importance of Sex Ed, Common Classroom Questions, Pancake Uterus, Awkward Boners, Keeping it Scientific, Morning After Pill, When You Don’t Know the Answer and How to Keep it Casual. PLUS! Bonus intro: The Team Fun Origin Story!

  • Gold Star Polyamory
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 23, 2012 at 7:00 am

    ADULT SUPER POWERS! FALLING IN LOVE FOREVER! KEY PARTIES! Poly folks Kristy and KJ join us for a live show on loving outside the box! Topics include: Partner Labels, Love in Abundance, Swingers vs Poly, The Power of “No,” Oxytocin, Putting Yourself First, Kids in Poly Families, Emotional Accountability, Jealousy vs Compersion and Sandra gets offered a breast!

  • Orgasms for Everybody!
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 16, 2012 at 7:00 am

    MASTURBATION MYTHS! THE BEST CURE FOR THE HICCUPS EVER! SCIENCE! Sexologist Megan Andelloux joins us to talk orgasmic science & pleasure. Topics include: Vibrator Diet, The Joy of Earning It, Nerve Pathways, Medical Textbook Errors, Mental Orgasms, Awkward Roommate Moments and the Truth about the G-Spot.

  • 50 Shades of Cray-Cray
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 9, 2012 at 7:00 am

    EROTICA REVIEW! SIMULTANEOUS ORGASMS! SPANKING! Sandra & Mistress Mary battle it out as they examine the book taking the nation by sexy storm, “50 Shades of Grey.” Topics include: BDSM Lifestyle Contracts, Spanking, Harry Potter, Sardonic Plot Synopsis, Submissive Determination, Character Arcs, Hot Sex Scenes and DnD Dominance.

  • The Box Blues
    by Sandra Daugherty on May 2, 2012 at 7:42 am

    ANATOMY ENLIGHTENMENT! TRIGGER POINTS! SAD VAG SOLUTIONS! Sandra tells Dave all about the neato sexual anatomy she learned at the sex science conference! Then SexTherapist Dr. Rachel Pearson sneaks away with Sandra to talk Women’s Genital Pain therapy. Also discussed: Funny Anatomy Words, Childbirth, Masturbation, Self Care and Turning that Frown Upside Down… in bed.

  • Sex Nerd Science!
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 25, 2012 at 8:29 am

    MARRIAGE ALGORITHMS! NECK ORGASM! SEXUAL LITERACY! Chock full of sex facts, Sandra is back from 4 days in sex science heaven, sharing TONS of newfound knowledge with Dave! Then Dr. Christopher White talks Sexual Literacy and Training. Topics: Quad S Conference Recap, Sex Nerd Census, Manly Erogenous Zones, Clit History, Vaginal Orgasm Myths, Gynophile vs Androphile. Also, Holistic Sexual Health, Misleading Research Titles, Barebacking, Sex for Pleasure, plus Drugs, Alcohol and the “Eff it” line.

  • Big, Big Love
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 18, 2012 at 7:00 am

    FAT POSITIVITY! WEIGHTY MYTHS! PORK CHOP EYES! Author and historian Hanne Blank talks pleasure at any size. Then Sandra interviews a big n tall straight bear with self-confidence to match. Topics: Panda Three-Way, Porn, Public vs Private Desires, Topology, Fat Jokes, Limp Starfish, Helen Mirren, Medical Issues, Sex Positions, Reclaiming “Fat,” Sandra’s Shame Moment and Expanding Attraction.

  • Virgin: The Sexual Debutante
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 11, 2012 at 7:00 am

    LATE BLOOMERS! HYMEN MYTHS! CHERRY POPPIN’ STORIES! Sandra corners filmmaker Therese Shechter into sharing insights from her upcoming documentary, “How to Lose Your Virginity.” BONUS: Sandra interviews an old friend who was once a virgin lover. What!? Topics include: Your Number, The Catch 22, Self Esteem Drop, Sexual Milestones, Lesbians and a Great Mirroring Trick.

  • Kiss and Make Out
    by Sandra Daugherty on April 4, 2012 at 10:32 am

    TONGUE TIPS! SALIVA SCIENCE! WANDERING HANDS! Comedian TJ Miller cracks us up and helps school us on the fine art of the smooch. Live show topics include: Kissing Chemistry, Pre-Kiss Prep, No-No’s, Communication, Lip Softening Tricks, Kama Sutra, Spine Tinglies, Foreplay and Over-the-Clothing Pleasuring!

  • Oral Sex: BJ Basics!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 28, 2012 at 6:48 am

    TONGUE EXERCISE! TECHNIQUES! HOT SPOTS! Sandra and Dave discuss topics including: Strap on BJs, Taste, Manly Yeast Infections, Face F***ing, Finding the Magic Pressure, Dome vs Virgin Mouth, Pleasure Anatomy, The Swordswallower’s Secret, Fun Techniques and a parting thought on Virginity!

  • Oral Sex: Snatch Attack!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 21, 2012 at 7:00 am

    CONNIE LINGUS! DINING AT THE Y! WHISPERING IN HER WILLOWS! No matter what you call it, it’s fun! Novelist and sex educator Allison Moon returns to show us “how to drive a Vulva.” Topics include: Sex Positive vs Sex Neutral, Decoding Sex Sounds, The Importance of Pressure, Variety-then-Consistency, Reverse Spock, HOW TO FIND THE CLIT!, Penetration?, Avoiding the Downward Spiral, Bossy Bottoming, Vestibule: The Mudroom of the Vagina, TONGUE TRICKS and Pussy Taste!

  • Threesomes!
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 14, 2012 at 8:29 am

    GROUP SEX! EIFFEL TOWERS! DIVING FOR GENITALS! Sex educators Reid Mihalko and Allison Moon school us on Threesomes! Topics: Embracing the awkward, asking for what you want, drug-fueled vs pre-planned , black-belt-impromptu-lesbian-orgy, scrabble n’ sex machines, Gandhi, reverse engineering jealousy, cuckolding, unicorns, fancy positions and Pavlovian cunnilingus! Never a dull moment.

  • Talking Dirty with Marc Maron
    by Sandra Daugherty on March 7, 2012 at 7:12 pm

    Marc Maron schools us all on how to talk dirty. Topics: Sex noises, violent cuddling, tips on starting, phone sex, sexting, a dungeon tangent and begging for it. Marc reveals a side not everyone knows.

  • Harem Hottie
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 29, 2012 at 9:06 am

    SEX WORK! HOT MONOGAMY! FEMALE ORGASM! Author and performer Jillian Lauren shares how she went from a teenage stripper to harem hottie for the Prince of Brunei. It’s a fascinatingly true tale. ALSO: Weezer gossip, wishful threesomes, infertility, tips for hot monogamy, your body connection, faking orgasms and a whole lotta honesty.

  • The Man Box
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 22, 2012 at 3:35 pm

    MASCULINITY: Dr. Shira Tarrant and Sandra talk men. Dave busts into the Friend Zone. Topics include: Owning Who You Are, Feminism, Sexy Consent, Alpha vs Beta Males, Dancing, Dial-up Modem Impressions and Sandra’s Bend-Over-Boyfriend experience.

  • Sex MacGyver
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 15, 2012 at 8:04 am

    TOPIC: DIY sex toys & . Renaissance man Chris Gore (of G4) talks dirty & nerdy. Topics: Gore’s homegrown dirty talk technique, the first date speech, anal yoga, snakebite kit kinkiness, Dave’s take on dungeons and Chris’ new project, FetishVil.

  • Manly-Man/ Girly-Bits
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 8, 2012 at 8:59 am

    TOPIC: Buck Angel. Known for his tag line, “Man with a Pussy,” Buck sits down and spills the dirt on life as Howard Stern’s most memorable guest. Topics include: Bucks’ relationship to his vajayjay, Sandra’s trans-date-gone-wrong, the metal detector method for pleasure, tips on first kisses, insight into the trans world, pre-porn shoot negotiations and why taking the lead in bed rocks.  

  • Whiskey Dick
    by Sandra Daugherty on February 1, 2012 at 7:41 am

    TOPIC: Bedroom Blunders! Recorded live at Nerdist Theatre, Sandra and Dave welcome Jake Weisman (Women Sketch Comedy) and Barbie Davenport (LA Weekly) to the stage for useful tips and ridiculous stories. Topics abound! Condom slippage, psychological self-sabotage, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, awkward hookups, breast play etiquette, improving your taste, how to last longer and one heck of a shocking snowball story.

  • Orgasmic New Year
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 25, 2012 at 8:00 am

    TOPIC: Sandra shares simple tips for amping up your orgasm. But first, naughty new year’s resolutions, clit anatomy, a unique premature ejaculation solution and producer Katie pops her SNS cherry. Also, Dave must ice his balls and Sandra treats his face like a vulva. 

  • Sex, Love & Ninja Turtles
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 18, 2012 at 8:00 am

    Kevin Eastman, self-described “Uber Geek,” co-creator of TMNT and publisher of “Heavy Metal” magazine explains how he went from a member of Julie Strain’s fan club to her husband. It’s nerd magic. Plus: Love at First Sight, X-rated Cartoons and the Friend Zone.

  • A Numbers Game
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 11, 2012 at 8:00 am

    GUY-NEXT-DOOR: Comedian Moshe Kasher joins us for a hearty discussion and debate on the wide world of sex and promiscuity.Topics include: The dark side of sex, G-spotting, faking orgasm, handjobs, circumcision, feelings and Cher.

  • Awesome Ancient Sex
    by Sandra Daugherty on January 4, 2012 at 8:00 am

    Dr. Christopher Ryan, co-author of “Sex at Dawn” blows Sandra’s mind with the origins of human sexual behavior. Dave joins us briefly to vibrate our minds. Topics: Why our sexuality is about more than reproduction, a shocking truth about birth control and why Dr. Who fans are so sexy!

  • Women’s Seduction Tips
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 21, 2011 at 8:00 am

    TOPIC: It’s time to turn the tables! Life Impassioned coach Alicia Cybulski joins us for a live NerdMelt show on how to get the boy! We share simple tips on flirting, touch, and how to rock your sexy self with pride.

  • Sex Quemments #4: Blade Runner
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 14, 2011 at 9:23 am

    Q&A: Sexpert Jamye Waxman returns! We answer questions on swallowing, oral sexing, faking orgasms and how to get better at everything. Also, kissing tips and what NOT to say in bed!

  • BJs, A Love Story
    by Sandra Daugherty on December 7, 2011 at 8:50 am

    TOPIC: Oral sex empowerment. Hear how Mistress Mary bloomed into a full fledged Blowjob Queen.  Also, the shadowpuppet hold, multi-orgasmic men, the greasy spoon position and eye contact for the win!

  • Sexy School Reunion
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 30, 2011 at 8:00 am

    Dave drills Sandra on all the neato pickup tips she learned at her high school reunion! They discuss how to stay in the game, how to get her away from her friends and how to be a great wingman. This episode was supposed to be on blowjob techniques, and there’s a big juicy tip at the end, but first…

  • Sex Quemments #3
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 23, 2011 at 9:38 am

    Q&A/SEXPERT: Jamye Waxman tells us about her breasts. Sandra comes out of the closet. Dave writes a book. Pearl necklaces, reorganizing your genitals, anal toys, cat lube racing, vaginal exercises, friends-with-benefits and how not to get stabbed by your girlfriend.

  • Spicing It Up
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 16, 2011 at 7:19 pm

    TOPIC: Can we keep it spicy? Enter rad husband and wife team Alicia Lum-Denchasy and Ian Denchasy (founders of FreddyandEddy.com). Topics: Dirty Talk, Roleplay Mishaps, Sex Outside the Bedroom and How to Stay Playful. Plus: Earthquake Sex, Tantra, Sexting, Sandra’s French maid attempt and the ONE THING Alicia will never say. (Recorded Live at NerdMelt in L.A.)

  • Hardcore Roleplay
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 9, 2011 at 8:13 am

    TOPIC: Playing adult make believe with guests Emily E. Prior and Tim Woodman, sexperts & long time sweeties. ***WARNING: Intense sex play is discussed, including fantasy rape roleplay and edge play. Also: Costumes, Tips, Favorite Fantasies, The SNS drinking game, Dungeon Nerds, Second Life, and more!

  • Stress Relief
    by Sandra Daugherty on November 2, 2011 at 6:07 am

    SEXPERT: Lara Catone, sexual wellness educator, shares the secrets of orgasmic birth, internal/external pelvic massage and neato g-spot nerves. Then, Lara’s partner, Will Shivers, joins us for a fantastic look into open relationships (even in monogamy!), personal triggers and hot communication. Plus, fun tangents galore!

  • Ladies’ Man
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 26, 2011 at 7:50 am

    TOPIC: Hitting on women, but for nice guys. Charm expert Jordan Harbinger joins Sandra and Dave live on stage at NerdMelt. Topics include: The importance of blinking, body language, the creepy factor and Sandra’s personal favorite: Admitting insecurity IS confidence. Audience questions: Gentle rejection, online dating and getting out of the friend zone. 

  • Answerin’ Emails #2
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 19, 2011 at 1:49 am

    Q&A: Comedians Ed Salazar & Dave Ross help Sandra Daugherty answer the tough questions. Question topics: Coming too soon, what’s the best toy, partner-pleasing book suggestions, faking orgasm and partner communication. Plus, Dr. Who and Battlestar drooling, anal beads and Sandra gives out gold stars when you’re good in bed.

  • Sex and Cancer!?
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 11, 2011 at 11:12 pm

    GIRL-NEXT-DOOR: Sandra and Dave talk to Rachel, a sexy cougar going through treatment. Can you have cancer AND a sex life? Yes! This show is dedicated to anyone who has or loves someone with breast cancer. Topics: Sex toys, hardcore medical stories (Squeamish Beware!), talking to your doctor about sex, adult store discoveries, old timey sex ed, vaginal dilation, and not letting cancer define who your are. (Please donate to IHeartMySharkfin.com)

  • Booty Basics
    by Sandra Daugherty on October 4, 2011 at 10:42 pm

    TOPIC: How to get junk into your trunk. Sandra & Dave talk first-timer anal sex. Topics: Myths, Anatomy, Handy Techniques, Lube and a coast-to-coast sphincter push. Sorry, Mom!

  • Answerin’ Emails
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 28, 2011 at 6:37 am

    Q&A: Comedians Ed Salazar and Dave Ross help Sandra Daugherty answer the tough questions. But first: Hardcore sex class at Burning Man, watching porn as a couple and Ed’s love of Kitchen Sex.  Q’s: 1) How do I tell her I don’t like her BJ’s? 2)I have HPV. Can I still have sex? 3) Look at my penis! Does this condom fit right?

  • Dungeon Dom
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 21, 2011 at 6:56 am

    SEXPERT: Mistress Mary Typhus talks the business of domination with Sandra Daugherty and comedian Dave Ross. Topics: “Just the Tip” (Stocking Bondage & Safe words), Spankings and Impact Implements, Angry Chicken Cosplay, Loving Humiliation, and a roleplay story that brought down the house!

  • Sex Store Warriors
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 14, 2011 at 6:28 am

    PANEL: Sandra’s coworkers join her for stories from the front lines. We’re talking customer satisfaction to the maximum. Topics: weirdest moments, crank call revenge, the Fleshlight, and a goat. Plus listener questions! WARNING: Sexual behaviors will be discussed re: workplace trainings that could be triggering to sensitive souls. You’ve been warned, nerd friends!

  • Semen Soldiers
    by Sandra Daugherty on September 7, 2011 at 6:32 am

    SEXPERT: Sex expert Jamye Waxman and I help comedian Ed Salazar ready his semen soldiers for a night of passion.  TOPICS include: Female masturbation, hot blowjobs, porn trends, Burning Man and a round of Just the Tip!

  • Taboo
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 30, 2011 at 11:07 pm

    GIRL-NEXT-DOOR: Girl-next-door Elaine Smith joins Comedian Dave Ross and me, Sex Nerd Sandra as we talk brothels, booty toys and a few more things a bit… taboo. We answer 2 listener questions on toys and blow jobs, then finish with a jovial roundtable discussion on hands-free bj machines. Pictures at SexNerdSandra.com!

  • Handjobs for Everyone!
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 24, 2011 at 6:52 am

    TOPIC: We’re talking about how to pleasure everybody’s bits! Comedian Dave Ross joins me for this hilarious discussion on all things Hand. Tangents include: Faking Orgasms,  Absurd Dirty Talk and Penis Pumps! We finish with a flurry of different stroking techniques and the pussy hug that changed everything.

  • G-Spot TMI
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 17, 2011 at 6:16 am

    TOPIC: Listen in on my 2nd live show at NerdMelt with Sex & Relationship coach Catherine Toyooka. Our TMI-filled gab fest about the G-spot includes sex toy fencing, vaginal acoustics, anatomy fun, and what’s up with female ejaculation. Boy do we say “vagina” a lot this episode!

  • Sex Toy Primer
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 10, 2011 at 6:34 am

    TOPIC: I cover my kitchen table with sex toys, then invite my friend Spaceman over to talk about them. He makes silly noises with my teaching apparatus and I judge him for it. Topics include: Toy Styles from Men and Women, Materials and Lube. Also discussed: Dildo Flask, Boning Pendulum, and why you should keep your dog out of your toy drawer.

  • Foreplay +
    by Sandra Daugherty on August 4, 2011 at 7:57 pm

    SEXPERT: Sandra nerds out on her favorite toy, then Sex Educator Mary joins us for how to use Craigslist to get laid (+ giant penis story). Enter Dr. Hernando Chaves for the safe sex talk & man feelings. PLUS Q&A! Dirty Talk, Magic Wand & Approaching Women.

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